2006-07-12 17:52:57 · 37 answers · asked by andrea t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well u know what if u love ur bf and he loves u it really should not matter if they like u or not they are not the ones in the relationship and they need to mind their own business.hope i have helped!
good luck!
2006-07-12 17:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by moka29420 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you see .... when your boyfriend's family hates you maybe you could do something nice maybe but sometimes want to like beat the hell out them up but don't .Never ever do that ok ^_^ so ..... If you know how to cook maybe cook your best plate and maybe home made ice cream .. It's delicious you know oh maybe not to be rude but don't be too talk to much it can be annoying and well but something if it's is their birthday try to look nice and if you have enough money maybe presents and if you do everything you can do that nice and they still hate you then try telling Mr.Boyfriend to handle it k .Last but not least remember to not be rude or talkative ( by the way is that how you spell talkative ) So good luck !
2006-07-12 18:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by F4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure they don't hate you. If you did something embarrasing or said the wrong thing, I know it might be wierd right after it happened but if you give it some time I'm sure it will resolve itself. If you think they hate you for no reason because they act like it they are probably just skeptical to play it safe. Any loving parent would do so and sooner or later they'll warm up to you, Trust me!
2006-07-12 17:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by littlemisspopprincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they hate you. If you know why then see if you can maybe correct the problem. It maybe something as simple as you don't let him study.If you can't fix it then think about it as how much it matters to you. Would you rather be hatered and be with him or just let it go and move on with someone else?It's really up to you. It's not like you are married to him.I hate to say it but I talk from experience.
2006-07-12 17:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Donna M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i feel that the relationship is between you and your boyfriend. It should not be a big deal if you have not done anything that warrant their hate. Just don't hate them back. Instead love them in return. Hate begets hate. In time, they will be touch by your love and not hate you anymore.
2006-07-12 17:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by chrisky33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. i understand your sit. when my husband and i were dateing, his sister really disliked me. i mean REALLY! she called me on the phone and said all sorts of nasty things to me. she once tried to get in a fist fight with her brother after he came home from my place. this was a long time ago and we have been married for 16 years now this oct. his sister finally came around about 6 years ago. yeah a long time to endure but we made it. and now i can say that she and i have a good relationship. i still walk on egg shells at family gatherings but i think she likes me and il ike her too. i guess we just avoided each other for all those years. she even didn't come to our wedding. oh well, her loss. but it has worked out. be yourself and stay true. if you two can weather through a family of skeptics then they will see you can take on anything. good luck
2006-07-12 17:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by doyanails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they hate you. Then talk with them and resolve their problem. There is really nothing else you can do other then that. Talk with your boyfriend and ask his advice and help with his family.
2006-07-12 17:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make things better between you, try talking to them civilly about it. It can put ALOT of strain on a relationship when your boyfriend's family doesn't like you, because he'll always feel like he needs to take sides and so will you!
2006-07-12 17:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriends mom used to hate me, but once she found out that i went to church and i wanted to take him with me, she began to like me, because she realized i was a good person. I'd say not to worry about it, sooner or later they'll realize you're not bad. Until then, just remember you're dating him, not his family.
2006-07-12 17:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by In God's Hands 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like them? Are they likeable people? I'm assuming that they don't like you because they don't know you very well. Or maybe your boyfriend has told them about a arugment that you two have had. If you really can't think of a reason for their hatred, then f**k em!!! It's their problem, not yours. Continue to be you.
2006-07-12 17:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by meme1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they hate you. If it's a misunderstanding, clear it up. If it's because of something you did/said, apologize. If it's b/c they're crazy, don't sweat it, but be warned, your boyfriend shares genetic material with these people.
2006-07-12 17:56:23 · answer #11 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋