as i stated in the question i want advice on what to do....it seems like he doesnt want to be my friend anymore so what can i do?? or what should i do?? any POSITIVE advice will help
2006-07-12 17:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by bunny go splat 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If you see him in passing, nod and greet him and go on. Let him make the first move to hang out, and if he doesn't, then just go with it. Otherwise, he may turn on you, with some other friends, and bully you, make a bad scene, etc. and you don't need that.
Once school starts, join some clubs and such that you are interested in, and you will soon make some new friends that perhaps are more in to the kinds of things you specifically enjoy.
Good luck!
You will do fine.
2006-07-12 17:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me when I went to highschool. My friends told me that unless I changed what I wore, that they didn't want to be friends with me once we got to highschool.
Well, I told them that they were being superficial and acting like idiots because I honestly didn't give a crap about fitting in, I would rather be myself.
So, I did not give in to their ultimatum, and spent Grade 9 hooking up with new friends. By the 10th grade, my old friends were asking me to hang out again and pretty soon I had an even wider circle of friends.
So, basically what I'm saying is let them go. If they are good friends you guys will meet up again someday. I got through it and so will you.
Wishing you all the best in highschool!!!
2006-07-12 17:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't make people be your friends. Stay optimistic, make new friends. It's another ball game in high school. Take advantage of this opportunity to grow. Enjoy this time while it lasts because life changes all the time. What counts is how you react to it. Simply, if he doesn't want to be your friend respect that and make new ones. Move on, have fun.
2006-07-12 17:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by tiniri11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im nevertheless a youthful teen so i wouldnt quite understand a lot about marriage yet i understand that if 2 each and every individual is in love, they ought to get married. It sounds like your ideal chum quite feels an similar way about you. it ought to finally finally end up with you 2 marrying. yet don't experience tempted to ask how he feels. this may bring about a unexpected experience of lack of self belief between you both, wait till you're both waiting to calm down and then open up. yet in case you both love eachother then there is no reason you shouldnt get married. best of success
2016-12-01 04:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by walley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all "If you see him in passing, nod and greet him and go on. Let him make the first move to hang out, and if he doesn't, then just go with it. Otherwise, he may turn on you, with some other friends, and bully you, make a bad scene, etc. and you don't need that." is the stupidest thing i have ever heard...and 2nd of all...you need to let me...wait im not gonna talk to you on this yahoo sh**...and wow..you need to get advice form yahoo users??...typical...why are you going through all this trouble bcus of me huh? it is really not a big deal...
2006-07-14 16:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships end, and everyone has a little trouble in high school. Make new ones once you get to school and follow his advice, stay away.
2006-07-12 17:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by reverenceofme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to him, let him come to you but if he doesn't, try to understand and not hate him, there's nothing wrong with you, it's just that sometimes kids growing up are trying to "discover" themselves and sometimes it means moving through groups of friends.
2006-07-12 17:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like he wants you to act more like his friend than him not wanting to be friends. you should just ask him what you're doing that gives him that impression and if you could change anything to help the situation what would he recommend. that way he has input and knows you do want to be friends.
2006-07-12 17:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by subface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask why is that , then go find a true friend
2006-07-12 18:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by artpoz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you ahve to realize is that your both changing. you'll always have friends. if youu want to repiar thsi friendship you have to talk to them and explain to them how you feel, if they dont listen, its not worth it
2006-07-12 17:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋