I need to know if you can get pregant if you have unprotected sex a week before your period is due?

Question

I have been sleeping with my friend for 2 weeks now. We have had unprotected sex multipule times and I have been feeling really sick for 3 days now and extremly tired all the time. My period usually starts between the 7th-9th & it has not happened yet and it is the 13th already. I can't be pregant can I? I don't know what to do if I am should I tell him?

also I don't know if this is a sign or not but i have had no appetite for the 5 days and I extermly tired all the time.I don't know if he would wanna help take care of it he's 32 and I'm 21 and he says that he is not ready for a commited relationship this was after I told him that I started to develop feelings for him I wanna cry I feel really stupid right now

how does the last answer answer my question ?

Answer 1

you can definitely be pregnant!

take a test to see.......

maybe you are late and feeling sick just because of the worry about it. USE PROTECTION, hon!!
Not just for pregnancy but for your health!
Hopefully it will be fine and a lesson well learned!

As for not telling him?????????
What is up with that???????
You should let him know you are worried and let him worry with you. It is obviously a lesson he needs to learn also. You shouldn't have to worry alone. The two of you are close enough to have sex more than once, well, you should be able to share this also.
He should be aware of your feelings, fears, etc and if you continue a relationship with him, well, he has to be responsible also. Part of that is sharing EVERYTHING! Not just the SEX.
The birth control, the safe sex, the worry if you are late..........he is also responsible and should understand that from the beginning.

Answer 2

You really should just calm down and take it one day at a time. Could you be pregnant? Yes. Using the method of saying you ovulate at a certain time of the month is tricky because a lot of things factor into it. You do not always ovulate 14 days into your cycle. On the other hand, 4 days late is not that strange. You can be late if you have been stressed, sick, changed your diet etc. I was just a week late because I was stressed out. A lot of things can make you late.
My advice to you is to take a pregnancy test. But most of all calm down. No matter what it is you will be able to make the choice that is best for you. Let us know how it goes.

Answer 3

First you should be honest with your friend. Tell him the truth. That your period has not come.

You can purchase pregnacy test kits at pharmacies. Do a DIY urine test. Do it with the support of your friend.

If you are pregnant,

Understand that there is another life in you.

Discuss about alternatives. Discuss about getting parental consent into marriage. Most parents of both sides usually agree in this kind of cases. It is the asking part is most difficult. So confide your problem to the one (either parent from both sides) who is more forgiving first.

Getting a ROM is cheap.

Abortion is the nightmare to solve this kind of problem. It tramatise a mother and a responsible father the whole of their lives. Initially it seems to be the easiest way out, but no you have to bear it thoughout your life.

Think about informing a parent first and always seek religious help. Then things will work out. It is not easy in the beginning but it may not be that difficult either.

Answer 4

Of course with any unprotected sex you could be pregnant, but the good news for you is that most women ovulate exactly 2 weeks before their next period, so one week before your period should not matter it would have been the week before when you could have gotten pregnant. But if you are late you need to have a pregnancy test done.

Answer 5

Unprotected sex on a number of occassions? Hum.....
OF COURSE you could be pregnant! Get a pregnancy test and go from there. Now is not the time to try to figure out what to tell him - he WAS there and he KNEW he wasn't wearing a condom, I bet.
Were you TRYING to get pregnant? Unprotected sex, unless you are trying to get pregnant is nothing short of ignorant. I know that sounds harsh, but, come on -------
And, did you consider STD's? Honey - take a test, get tested for STD's and, if you insist on having casual sex - use birth control, and make DARN SURE he wears a condom.

Answer 6

You could be pregnant. Having unprotected sex and not taking any kind of birth control methods will raise your risk of becoming pregnant, its probably to soon to run out and buy a home pregnancy test or something you could be just late but if you havent got it by the last of the month or so id be going and checking it out.You should probably wait until you know if your pregnant or not to tell him, no need of spreading rumors until you find out it is true.
good luck.

Answer 7

you can get pregnant at pretty much any time during your cycle. you can do an at home test to see of you're pregnant, or the only earliest way to tell is to go to the dr and have a blood test done. i felt the same way you're describing when i got pregnant. the best thing to do is find out if you are pregnant before you tell him anything so you don't start anything that doesn't need to be started.

Answer 8

1. Yes, it is possible to become pregnant during that time.
2. Don't mention it to him until you take a test.
3. If you sleep with your friends, ask yourself if this is even right.
4. That unprotected habit needs to stop.

Answer 9

Of course you can. You can 365 days a year....even when you have your periods...I would even say your chances are better to get pregnant 1 to 2 weeks before your periods. Go get a test honey.

Answer 10

Yes you can become pregnant, take a pregnacy test. And you should tell him regardless of the results. If you don't want to get pregnant STOP having unprotected sex!