i think i might be pregnant. i am in alot of pain. and my ex is happy that i might be preg. ever one in my family think that i sleep around and i don't . so i do i tell them that i might preg and i don't sleep around . i am 25 this will be my first baby .
2006-07-12 16:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by asgsj2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First get a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, then tell your ex, and then together the two of ya'll tell your family. Don't go and get married to your ex even if you are pregnant just because ya'll created a baby together. If ya'll both truly love each other then talk about marriage. First thing is to find out if you are pregnant. Go to the doctor and get tested, it is more accurate plus they can give you an estimated delivery date.
2006-07-12 17:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a situation you got yourself into, First thing you got to do is wait until that time of the month and get a preg test, if it turns out positive you had better tell your family that you are pregnant, if it's negative you got all worked up over nothing. Here is the thing that you aren't going to like to hear though, if you are pregnant no matter what you tell your family if they already believe you sleep around this pregnancy is just going to confirm what they already think. If you aren't pregnant though I would suggest waiting until you get married before you sleep with any more guys, then you won't have to worry about them thinking you sleep around.
2006-07-12 17:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 25! your family might be disappointed but you are an adult. but i do know how you feel though. i wouldnt want to tell my parents something like that either. but you should find out if you really are pregnant or not first before you start worring too much. if you are in pain it might be something else. im not sure if being pregnant really causes any pain until maybe later on in the pregnancy if it happens. but if you are pregnant maybe you could write your parents a letter so that they can have time to think about it before they talk to you. that way maybe they wont freak out on you as much. they probably wont be that supportive when you first tell them. but i have had a couple of friends in the same postion and by the time their babies were almost due their parents were excited to be grandparents.
you just have to remember that every thing happens for a reason and if you are pregnant then for some reason God wanted you to have a baby so you should try to be a positive as you can about it!
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-12 17:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell them. But you might have to do that in the hospital. Why do they think you sleep around? I hope you keep the baby and love it, and stay with- or even marry_ your bf for the baby's sake, too! Congrautions!
2006-07-12 16:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
often love dies when hit by such a storm
let it
two shells of a cracked seed separate
sooner or later fall away-
its the root that matters
once the storm spins itself out
mist falls and the sun begins to clear a path
persuading a resilient plant
with a most breathtaking flower
to grow
it still can
let it
2006-07-12 16:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pregnancy test. If you're pregnant, get marry to the father only if you love him. Your family will come around.
2006-07-12 16:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of pain. if you are pregnant its good you dont sleep around with diffrent people cause it wouldnt be good for ur bundle of joy..good luck with ur baby. i got 7 months to go
2006-07-12 17:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell anyone u suspect that u may be......find out for sure before u make that announcement......go to the doctor, and get checked out.....
2006-07-12 16:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the doctor first
2006-07-12 17:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋