why ami so ugly itry my best to look good but no boy still never like me
2006-07-12 16:21:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
the best answer to this question that ive ever heard (and it applies to everyone not just girls) is that u have to learn to love urself before others will love you. beauty comes from within.
2006-07-12 16:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i felt the same way. actually, i did attract boys. but they were the losers who couldn't get anybody else. ya know, the annoying no-it-all type. but let me tell ya, you don't have to look like those super models to be beautiful. the world just gives girls the impression that they have to be skinny and 110 lbs to be pretty. you have to see through all that. you are not ugly. just because you don't look like all those other girls doesn't mean you are ugly. do not compare yourself to others or else you will always feel bad about yourself. and if guys are that stupid that they don't fall in love with your personality, then screw them. that is their loss. i think you are very young, and you still have a lot of life to live. give it time, wait until those little boys grow into men. you will be attractive when you feel attractive. work on boosting up your self esteem and nothing will ever stop you.
2006-07-12 16:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jugglingmidget06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything and even those who are physically "perfect" (which is very subjective) need to have more than that to back it up.
Worry about becoming a person of substance with a good education who treats other people as well as she would like to be treated. Be kind, generous and compassionate. Be independant and strong. Have opinions, but respect those of others as well. Be your own unique, special, wonderful self and don't take what anybody else says at face value. Question everything and always search for your own truth.
2006-07-12 16:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend/man in your life to feel better about yourself. You need to find somthing you enjoy and are good at! and get a high-self esteem because you should never be in a relationship unless you love yourself first, remember your number one no one else can take all that you are and all that you have from you. Best of wishes.
2006-07-12 16:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by deadly_nightshade5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE YOURSELF
NEVER, NEVER DO ANYTHING STUPID SO THAT OTHERS WILL LIKE YOU. FOR THE LESSON THERE IS THAT IF THEY LIKED YOU AT ALL THEN THEY WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL IN HELPING TO YOU IN AVOIDING DOING SILLY THINGS.
PLEASE BE HAPPY AND FREE AND STAY SAFE AND SMART AND HEALTHY AND ABOVE ALL BE BRAVE.
it happened to me also but when i started loving myself, i was being noticed around. although it doesn't matter what guys think of you and...... it hardly matters but somewhere in your heart you wanna be noticed and liked by the guys. it did work for me hope works for you as well.
i don't use any makeup. i am simple and just the way i am. coz i am what i am.
be proud of yourself. love yourself. trust yourself once you realise this u'll know the beauty inside you. coz makeup and all gets washed away but ur inner beauty is the real you which is really worth admiration!
work on it buddy.
2006-07-12 16:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, go to the nearest mirror and take a good look at your hot self and repeat to yourself out loud three times, "I am beautiful, I am hot, I love myself!" Now do that every day in the morning and you will begin to see that you are beautiful, you are hot and love yourself.
Take it from this 34 year-old girl, no one will like you if you don't like yourself first. My boyfriend, who happens to be my first real boyfriend (some of us bloom a little later), always tells me that he finds me the most beautiful when I look like I feel good about myself, when I feel hot and sexy. It finally sunk in after being with him for over 2 years - I am beautiful because I know and show I am. Period!
Remember: Beauty begins with "BE" so be!
2006-07-12 16:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by RiverGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say ur ugly it just might be that u havent found that person yet better yet that person hasent found u they are wondering the same thing. i dont consider myself purrdy at all and i have the best bf in the world he isnt the best looking but neither am i but i wouldnt trade him for the world. just look for someone that loves u for u n not ur looks and u love them for the same reason too. dont expect too much otherwise u mite come off as snobby! just keep ur head up im sure someone will come along!
2006-07-12 16:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you not ugly, everybody is beautiful in their own way. Beauty is not only physical its whats within. If you do your best to look good then girl you look good. And don't try to look good for no boy. Look good for you!!!
2006-07-12 16:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Lady E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your attitude is low so try to change that you have to love yourself first then guys will start notice you afterward.I learned that myself it took me long way but it is the truth.One guy will come along if you change that attiudes just learn how to love yourself first then you will be surprised. It won't happen overnight it will take time.
2006-07-12 16:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by JESSICA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Richelle,
you are not ugly.
you try to look your best.
you are doing everything right,
except you don´t seem sure
of yourself, and that projects to others.
Work on self-esteem, Richelle, you are worth it,
and then let the people know, by the way you carry
yourself.
Good luck, my friend!
2006-07-12 16:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by vim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋