2006-07-12 16:10:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not at all. Just like women have different erogenous zones, men do as well. There are nerves that get stimulated there and it canhelp a man get off faster or have a better orgasm. I would not consider it gayish, just a little freaky deaky. Nothing to get bugged about really. A lot of men like to be stimulated and some little penetration. Some women like it as well and no one thinks anything of it. It shouldn't be any different if a man likes that every once in a while as well. also according to this site, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. Being gay involves alot more than the sexual act. Just like lesbianism involves more than the sexual act, for obvious reasons even though there are substitues a female can use. It's all about the emotions one feels. If it is just for please, then so be it. It is something extra that ads to the intensity of the sexual relationship.
2006-07-12 16:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by carina_tx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's not gay. That's a pretty good definition of Bisexual. Nothing wrong with that either. Many bisexuals like to "recieve" as it feels good to them, same as it does a woman. There's also the factor of gratification from giving sexual pleasure. A guy can't hide whether or not he's enjoying it, and a guy knows better than a girl what feels good to a guy. Many bisexual guys are more attracted to women, but like guys a little too.
2006-07-13 11:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carina and Merlin, and a few others are correct!
Just because a man likes to be penetrated, whether every time or just ocassionally, doesn't mean he is gay or bisexual.
If he would rather be penetrated than penetrate you, you may have a problem! Other than that, I wouldn't worry about it.
It is true that the prostate to a man is somewhat like the g-spot to a woman. It feels good to have it touched. It even feels good to many women.
Your man may enjoy just a little massage there, or may even enjoy full in and out penetration. Many women do as well.
This doesn't DEFINE a person for who or what the are.
Some of us like liver, some of us are completely disgusted by it, and then some of us may be willing to try it once, and if we like it, again and again! If we chose to ONLY eat liver, then, we are exclusive to it.
He tried liver, and he likes it, so let him have it once in awhile! He'll still come back for the chicken!
I suggest, for more info on how to make it enjoyable to him, research the "how to's" of it.
Here is a good place to start:
www.sexualhealth.com
I also must state that, even though I am a bi-sexual woman, I am married to a man who is a homophobe...who has allowed me to show him the enjoyment of the act you ask about. He enjoyed it and very much so....although he at first mentally categorized it as a gay act.
I look at it like this:
Sex is a restaraunt with many things on the menu. Some you may like, others, you may not. At least be open to try something new, you may find you like it , and possibly better than your all time favorite!
Although you may like steak, sometimes you'd like to throw in some shrimp on the side, other times, you may want chicken, or even just steak.
Just because shrimp is on the menu, doesn't mean you order it EVERYTIME.
You may find that you come to enjoy pleasing him in this particular way, and even get turned on by it! Don't limit yourself or your lovers pleasure by judging this as a gay act or by questioning his sexuality...enjoy his pleasure and help him acheive it...I'm sure he will be willing to return the favor in whatever way you'd like to have it delivered...........
2006-07-13 11:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have to be attracted to men to be gay. If you are attracted to men and women then you are bi. But just enjoying anal penetration doesn't make you gay or bi. A lot of straight men enjoy stimulation in that area.
2006-07-13 03:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people who have already written answers to this question have assumed that his like of anal penetration would have to take the form of homosexual sex. That is not necessarilly true.
A man who likes sex with women might enjoy having his anus probed by his female sexual partner with her finger, for an example. Or, they might choose to use a toy, like a vibrating plug.
So, the answer to your question is neither a clear-cut yes, or a no. It depends on how he gets the penetration. If his anus is penetrated by another guy, he is bi-sexual. If it is done artificially, or manually by a female partner, he's a kinky straight.
2006-07-12 23:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Label, label, label, label, label. Does it *really* matter? Kinsey proved 50 years ago that people are spread all across the spectrum between het and homo. Does anyone pay attention?
It's not black and white. And behavior changes year by year. A lot of people's attractions change with time. WHAT is the big deal?
2006-07-13 09:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like sex with women - you're not GAY.
You like sex with men too? You're bisexual
If you just like your girl to put her finger there or to work it with a strap on or you on your own with a probe - and no desires for a man to be doing it to you? You're straight. A little kinkier than some, BUT straight.
Hope this helps
2006-07-13 05:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is considered Bi-Sexual. Just practice Safe-Sex especially with anal.
2006-07-12 23:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by K R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bi.
Gay = someone who likes sex with the same sex.
bisexual = someone who likes to have sex with the same and the opposite sex.
It does not matter that he likes to be analy penetrated. He likes heterosexual sex too. He is bi.
2006-07-12 23:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have sex with women but I love a girl to use a strap on or a ********* on me.
2006-07-13 10:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋