i was with this guy for almost three years and he just broke up with me. im hurt as hell and i can't do sh!t, but think about him. and he seems fine but i just want to die. i need some help here.
2006-07-12 15:53:12 · 6 answers · asked by baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im so sorry you are hurting so much right now........I know what a broken heart is like and how badly it does hurt......I've been there but my situation was abit different.
See, my boyfriend of 2 years verbally and emotionally abused me. I thought at the time I loved him and didnt leave him.......it was to the point I was crying all the time and finally I just had enough and had to walk away from him and the relationship.....it was hard and it took awhile for my broken heart to mend but Im way better off then what I would of been with him.
It will take time for your heart to heal.....im not going to lie to you about that. It could days, months or even a year or so, but the one thing you dont want to do is move into another relationship to fast....let yourself heal from this one because you dont want to do anything on the rebound. One thing I did was to write in journal every day about how i was feeling so i didnt hold those feelings in. I also prayed and meditated with God.....it helps a great deal and He will mend your broken heart.
If you ask me you are to good for this jerk who broke up with you and walked away.......as bad as it hurts look at it like this.......He did you a big favor ....now you know what he is like .....just think if you had ever ended up married to him. You will find that one that is made just for you one day........someone wont leave you and who will treat you with all the love and respect you deserve and need.
Stay strong and hang in there things will get better though it might not seem like it now.
I will be praying for you.
2006-07-12 16:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl the only thing you can do is go out! and have fun like never before!....No guy is good enough for any girl>>>remember that!.....whatever you do dont call him and tell him you miss him, that will give him the strength to hurt you even more cuz then he'll know you'll do ANYTHING for him...even though it might be true...dont show him you care...dont ever let him see you cry...make it seem that your fine too...in a couple of days when he notices that your not calling he'll realize what he let go....:)
2006-07-12 16:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step in healing a broken heart is to forgive the person, after you do that you have started the healing process. Although it may be hard it is something you have to do and stay busy that should keep your mind off of him.
2006-07-12 17:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by britt7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someway so a procedures, i have in no way had my heart damaged, i have continually executed the midsection breaking...that's like you suggested often times worse for me reason I have a tendency to sense mega accountable and stuff....my very last boyfriend thoroughly fell aside when I broke up with him, he did not wanna enable me go, so as that replaced into troublesome to attend to.... :)
2016-11-01 23:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke up with you...though how hurt you've been...still have your dignity and stand tall. Feel lucky that you're out of the relationship early...Girl tell yourself this line "It's not my loss but his" ok...Go out with your friends, enjoy and have fun...that way you will easily forget him...
2006-07-12 16:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is major thing for you in your life, but please try and focus on other things. Finds some hobbies to keep you mind very busy!!
2006-07-12 15:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋