when he is mad, its no sex for a month. what do you do to make him stop?
2006-07-12 15:38:19 · 25 answers · asked by lodeemae 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go to counseling...he has issues and a level of immaturity that should be addressed..
2006-07-12 15:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by hmc121667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it will be you have to walk away from the relationship and leave him. He is obviously no good for you or your self esteem and you can do alot better than someone who is going to sit and act like a child and minipulate you by using no sex.
You are special and deserve to be treated as such and there is a guy out there who will see and realize all you have to offer and im not just talking about sex either.....Im talking about your heart and who you are on the inside as well as the outside, but to find that guy you have let go of somethings to get to that point.....one of those things is your now boyfriend who obviously doesnt see what a good thing he has because if he did he wouldnt treat the way that he does.
Good luck ....I'll say a prayer for you.
2006-07-12 15:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has someone else on the side... with or without you, he's getting what he wants. Lose the twisted f**k... I'd say use a weapon against his sex, but he doesn't really deserve that and it's not legal anyway... so drop him before he brings home to you a little of what he might be catching out there!
2006-07-12 15:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by nomad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your BOYFRIEND...then he shouldnt be in the position to use sex as a weapon. You stepped in that one way before you should have. But since you did.. its never too late to take your dignity back and leave and realize sex should be saved for a marital relationship.
Best wishes to you!
2006-07-13 05:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by AccountableLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another bf.Seriously,if he is withholding sex,as a punishment,then he truly doesn't love you.Because when you are already arguing/emotionally hurting,then him withholding sex,makes things worse by taking away the intimacy.Honey,think twice about the fact that he might not be the one for you.Good luck!
2006-07-12 15:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him and tell him thats whats gonna happen everytime he does no sex 4 a month. And is he a fag or what aren't u the one thats supposed 2 say no sex
2006-07-12 15:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very common weapon that women (try) to use.
I had a woman try this on me, she was kicked to the curb that day. Of course she was sorry, didn't mean it, blah blah blah. Too late - out the door!
2006-07-12 21:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha make it no sex for 2 months with him, and if its like that move on or get some great toys and he cant join in....
2006-07-12 15:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by shannon m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird this sounds funny usually men cant do without sex so is this really your punishment OR is he screwing someone else ? either way tell him to get on his bike if hes like this & hes only your b/friend. if you were married he would really treat you like a child he owns.
2006-07-12 15:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same to him when you get mad. it's getting even. don't give in. he really sucks... the only reason I'm going without is because I'm 9 mos pregnant. even if I wasn't my husband wouldn't do that because he'd be losing the battle anyway. your man needs to grow up.
2006-07-12 15:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. When he gets mad next time, it might be a life or death thing. With you loosing. Guys are whimps when they act like that. =o) Cheers!
2006-07-12 15:41:59 · answer #11 · answered by ebay_convert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋