its got 2 the stage in the last year wer i cant have sex as i feel useless and dont see the point wen everytimes a letdown.im iregular and wen do get periods they can last 4 weeks.everywer i look babies,babies,babies,even my little bro is having one soon.im 29 now and so depressed,i bought ovulaytion tests which are meant 2 b no gud if your iregular anyway.iv tryied the temperature ting but dont fully understand it.my sex life is non existant coz of this and gettin 2 both of us,its hard wen ur buying baby clothes 4 other people,some who dont even want kids!whishing it was 4 me.i cant put into words dat wud explain fully the way we feel,but i wud take on board any advise(no messing about please)any body tink they cud help!!!!
2006-07-12 15:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
don't give up, just stop trying so hard. my husband and I tried for five years to get pregnant but decided to give up thinking it was a waste of time to try. Two months later I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant. I hope you get to experience the joy of a little baby. Mine beats me up all the time. I say she is karate chopping my stomach. I am due any day now. Please, please, please don't give up. after a little while longer I would see a doctor
2006-07-12 15:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen your doctor - you need to be investigated for infertility. I was with my ex husband for 10 years and never got pregnant. My new partner and I statred trying and after 18 months still no pregnancy. I beleived that God hated me and didn't want to allow me to experience motherhood.
I had a laparoscopy last year to diagnose my endometriosis and they removed a few simple lesions. 4 months later I was pregnant for the first time in my life. I still can hardly beleive it!
Not everyone can get pregnant easily -s ome need a little extra medical help and it is there - make an appointment with your doctor - if your cycles are irregular you may have a condition called Polycystic Ovary Syndrome - this just means that yourt body is not producing enough of the right hormones to trigger ovulating each month. This can easily be treated with ovulation stimulating drugs like Clomid.
Good luck!!!
2006-07-13 03:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things you need to do before you will get pregnant. RELAX about it and... well the obvious really. If you are not having sex there is no way you will get pregnant is there.
These are both connected as if you are putting too much pressure on yourself and your partner there is no way you will both feel in the mood to be intimate together.
Have you had tests for Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome? That could be the reason you are irregular but you can still get pregnant if you are. It may be worth talking to a doctor about your concerns though.
Good luck.
2006-07-12 19:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy does this sound familiar. I go through times when I can't stop thinking about wanting a baby, and everywhere I turn there's another couple expecting or has a newborn. Try not to worry about it too much. Stress will just make things worse for you. Five years isn't too long to be trying; my aunt and uncle tried for seven years before getting pregnant. I've been trying for three years myself.
Something you may want to look into though is poly-cystic ovarian syndrome. Many women have it and don't know it. It could be what's causing your irregular periods, and your difficulty in conceiving. Ask your doctor or Ob/Gyn about it.
Best of luck.
2006-07-12 18:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by moonwatermuskoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard...when you and your husband have sex dont think about getting pregnant...just have fun...and when its your turn God will give you a baby....I have 3 kids,,,,one that is 17 now ad after he was born we tried everything too and then a dr said that i would never have another baby...but 9 years later i had another baby..well actually 2 more...so just have fun and stop worring it will come when the time is right. :) hope this helps...if you want to talk my email is cookiemonster19692003@yahoo.com
2006-07-12 15:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you are too dumb to have a child, please don't breed the poor kid will never get out of kindergarten with you for a parent. Where the heck did you learn to spell anyway? Nevermind, you didn't.
2006-07-12 16:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋