Okay here's this question, I've had a crush on a guy since 7th grade we became really close friends and stuff, we used to hang out quite a bit and everything was really great, then in 8th grade things were at first the same until I tried to tell him I liked him, after that we started hanging out less and less, and eventually my best friend and I had to move tables in lunch cause some ppl took over ours, he started to sit across the cafiteria at proably the farthest table away from us, then was when we stopped talking really, Now 9th grade, we hung out I think twice once was his b-day and once was the hp4 movie, I'm not sure how to really break the ice between us and try to become close friends again (especially since in some ways I still have feelings for him) He has become closer to one of my other friends in a way so I can't really push him out of my life, which sometimes seems like the best way to get through it, I guess I really need to know how to rebuild a friendship with him????
2006-07-12 15:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by R.R 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ask him to go out somewhere to HANG OUT- tell him you are sorry for being so forward when you told him you liked him a while back, tell him you justed wanted to let him know how you feel and if he isnt interested that is fine you still want to be friends.
i am 18 so i know high school very well.
its hard to talk to guys somtimes. but be honest and mature about the situation.
if he doesnt understand your sorry then he isnt worth having as a friend or b/f.
your still young and have your whole life to find the right man
good luck and be brave!
the truth never hurt anyone!
2006-07-12 15:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
yikes...u telling him u liked him obviously scared him off, maybe he just wanted friendship, and is afraid if he gets close to you again you will want more. I would say the safest thing to do is when you hang out with the friend that he is close to, and he is there, to make it clear that all you want is friendship (dont say it straight out, it will make you look desperate) and just keep trying, but if he doesnt come around then drop him, he isnt worth it anyway..good luck, let us know how it goes
2006-07-12 22:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by rockerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shudnt have told him so soon about how u feel. boys like to make girls wait if she shows interest. you can turn it to your side by showing u want to be just friends and make him want you .it works all the time honey.hang out with all your other friends and talk to him just like you are friends. then u will see the result in a short time.
2006-07-13 05:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell him that. say hey man we use to be best friends what happen? and then he might say something and then you guys can work on it. just start hanging out with him more, and then you will be good friends again.
2006-07-12 22:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel u did the worst thing that u could its not good to become good friends like really good and then tell them u like them what u shouldve done is got to kno him a lil bit then told him then u could get to kno him better when u were going out
2006-07-12 22:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by insane3639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give hiim a bj already
2006-07-12 22:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tom K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends
2006-07-13 00:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by kay2angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant have your bread butterd on both sides
2006-07-12 22:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋