I am a friendly person and I used to have alot of friends but as I got older I realize that most of these friendships had ulterior motives. So I had to break them off. I still talk to these people just casually.
my family doesnot live close by what do i do to overcome the loneliness?
2006-07-12 15:05:25 · 15 answers · asked by Lady Mandeville 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The moron who mention alcohol and drugs is the lonely one. Your situation is part of life. You will find a way. Some people never get time to be alone while others are alone to much. I dont know how old you are but i THINK you need a lover. One who cares about you. Not hard to find.
2006-07-12 15:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by repo2agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you can do is stop whining. Do volunteer work. Help the homeless. Join a nature club.......something productive. It is all up to you. Also, you may want to take a look at yourself and assess why so many "friends" had ulterior motives.......perhaps you need to do some serious soul searching.
2006-07-12 15:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the volunteer work idea. Also, if you work (which I am sure you do) you can say hi to a co worker in the break room or during lunch. If they say hello back, well, pick a topic, but leave it an open ended statement and get their feed back. If it is something you two have in common go from there. You can also chat on-line with people from your area and possibly find someone to hang out with that way. *******DO NOT MEET SOMEONE ON-LINE IN A PRIVATE PLACE!!****** Sorry, that is just the parent in me coming out. If you like music, you can also go to a club and try striking up a conversation with someone. Relax, have fun, and be yourself!
2006-07-14 10:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes you everyone left you there all out with out you having FUN!!! F is for friends that do stuff together U is for U and me N is for anywhere anytime at all here in the deep blue sea FUN!!!!
Sorry I could not help it.
Maybe join some programs that get you involed with other ppl like painting clases or somthing or even nature walks with groups FIND SOME FRIENDS.
2006-07-12 15:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by I Heart Pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i recently went through this where i moved to a new town knew no-one left all my old friends or whom I thought were friends behind..
The best thing to do is find something u enjoy doing if u don't get out there and do something u will lose your self confidence
If it has already started to dwindle then get out there now it is so much easier to start sumfin new with a bit o confidence
u will meet new people through this who will in turn introduce u to new people and yada yada
2006-07-12 15:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by sairs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some volunteer work at a nursing home or soup kitchen. It will make you feel good about yourself and you will be helping those less fortunate than yourself.
2006-07-12 15:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join something you like doing and meet people with the same interest or join a gym or whatever to keep yourself occupied and in the process you'll meet new people.
2006-07-12 15:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby or go to social places/events to meet new people.
2006-07-12 15:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by B-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were normal u would turn to drugs and alcohol but try to make some friends to get stoned or drunk with its easy to make friends if u have booze and weed or something
2006-07-12 15:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what I do i listen to my favorite music and hang out with friends
2006-07-12 15:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by vivianaH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋