He is dear to me, but I've been more attracted to past loves.
Can this work, or should I let him go?
He loves me more than i love him i feel.
2006-07-12 14:57:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have answered your own q.If you have been more attracted to past loves,and he loves you more than you love him,and you aren't attracted to him sexually,then please tell me why you are even in a relationship with him in the 1st place?Why put him in the position to be hurt if you don't feel the same?If you really care about him,then you need to make the decision to either let him down gently(and fast before it gets more complicated)or make this work and rekindle the passion and love.I find it hard to believe that you have NEVER been sexually attracted to him or loved him as much.And then it leads me to ask,if you did,what happened to make you feel the way you do now?Good luck!!
2006-07-12 15:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual attraction is great but not a necessity if you truly love someone. But sounds like he has more for you in the way of feelings than you do for him. It isn't fair to him to dangle him along if you are thinking of getting out. Be honest and talk to him. If you are young, you should look for someone you can love and be happy with. If you are over 50 or so, maybe sexual attraction is not as important as having a companion. Depends if you have kids too, it's not easy one way or another. Think long and hard before you decide.
2006-07-12 15:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so incredibly sexual attracted to my husband. I have dated a lot of guys that are physically a lot better looking, but something about him... Sorry, I think I am drooling! As soon as he walks through the door after work, I want to jump him! And I think it is part of why we have a good marriage. He feels no reason to go else were and neither do I. You can't force this attraction. But I think it is important. Some people may disagree and say it is more about respect and companionship. But it all goes together. Why settle for less?
2006-07-12 15:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by linds_a_lot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual attraction is important because it is a way that he may connect with you. if you are not happy with him that may be a reason why you are losing your sexual attraction to him. maybe you should have a serious talk with him good luck
2006-07-12 15:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him....he is the type of guy who wudn't cheat....the guy who luvs u more...well during ur realtionship u can work things out n discover new things n spice up ur realtionships....
its better that way
2006-07-12 16:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well love is different for each person the older you get the lest sex you will have i say go with it
2006-07-12 15:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by john boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!VERY IMPORTANT
You probably will get bored very quickly with your....whoever?
2006-07-12 15:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋