2006-07-12 14:55:15 · 15 answers · asked by Tiger Luvin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi, I feel your pain, I am debating the same thing.. I wish there was an easy answer to it, or if I knew it was the right thing, I just continue to make excuses to stay even though I am not in love with him. I do not want to hurt him, blah,blah. BUT I do know that children do pick up on the stress and the unhappiness. Children are more affected by the stress and unhappiness in a marriage than if they were seperated. My parents have been divorced for 27 years, and it was hard to see them both miserable all the time.. If you find the right answer let me know... Good luck
2006-07-12 15:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I'm a divorced mother of two children. What i've come to realize is that if I'm not happy then the kids can pick up on that and it makes it hard on them. Have you and your husband tried talking about this? You and your husband can also look at getting help. One thing that I learned the hard way is don't stay cause of the kids. Do what you think is best, the kids will heal in time.
2006-07-12 15:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong if you're leaving to be with another man (or woman if that's the case). Karma, baby, karma. What comes around, goes around.
If your marriage is over because YOU and HE cannot make it work any longer, then so be it. But, don't leave if there's a third party involved.
2006-07-12 17:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to mend the marriage if possible. Try counseling and everything else before you brake up. Those children deserve at least that. He may not but the children do.
Good Luck!
2006-07-12 15:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kimgreeneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not in love with him anymore then you should leave. There is no point in staying in a loveless marriage just for the kids.
2006-07-12 15:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always wrong to leave your spouse, unless he is physically abusing you or the kids.
2006-07-12 15:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont force yourself to live with someone you dont want to.
im sure you can work something out with the kids, and have routine or something.
its your life, and if its a really good reason on why you want to leave..then get out.
2006-07-12 14:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by xkenziie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not uptil u hv any genuine reason, which u know better. if its lil problem of life...u shud discuss with eachother and shud solve them for the sake of ur kids atleast.!
2006-07-12 15:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope where will the kids go thats most important?
2006-07-12 15:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by justmeadude43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your reasons for leaving
2006-07-12 14:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by rachiecakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋