It seems like once women hit their early-twenties they begin to talk of and fantasize about marriage, leaving their significant others to fend off a barrage of marriage related discussions. What is it in a woman that informs her seemingly insatiable nuptial desires?
2006-07-12 14:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by djgj15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
these women usually watched too many fairytale movies and yearn to wear a cinderella type of wedding dress & basically visualize a fantasy wedding like how princess diana rode to the chapel on a horse carriage.it's like how some men fantasize about marrying a super hot woman,who resembles a celebrity for example and probably won't settle for anything that's not close to 'perfection'.some women may also feel a need to get married because some of their friends have already settled down and they're jealous of how 'happy' their married friends seem.it's one thing if you're rich and can easily afford a big wedding but people who can't but plan an expensive wedding anyway just to show-off,are crazy and will probably get divorced early since they're in a such a rush & add onto the statistics lol maybe they want to get married & have kid(s),so that they'll be a future hot milf instead of an old hag mom.men aren't as eager because their sperm lasts a lifetime while womens' eggs expire faster.marriage requires sacrafices,such as some of your freedom/independence,which some aren't willing or ready to make.it seems like some people marry for the wrong reasons because they still have an immature mindset(even some older people still act immature,so i don't think older people are necessarily more wiser than anyone else regarding their decision-making capabilities) i also don't think one should marry just to please their significant other's desires and be miserable,instead of compromising so both are happy:)
2006-07-14 14:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by bumblebee_chola 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all, you are stereotyping. Not all women are in a rush to get married. However, for many women, being married by thier mid-thirties is what society expects of them. All of her friends are probably going down that road and, unless she is a strong, independant person, she thinks something is wrong with her if she is the last one - sort of like getting picked last for a sports team.
Then there is he whole baby issue - see, women think ahead. We think "OK, married by 25, babies by 30 or else I am raising kids during my 50's - and I don't want THAT!"
If you aren't interested in marriage do two things, 1. tell people up front so woman in a hurry aren't wasting thier time. 2. Look for independant women who have a career or other goals that they put first, they may not be so eager either.
2006-07-12 21:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a real moron to ask this question. What is wrong with you? You're a typical male who refuses to buy the cow, but wants the milk for free! And this is not to say that the woman in question is a cow, so don't go there.
Why don't you grow up, you immature, selfish, little boy?
2006-07-13 13:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by carmelsix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
traditionally, marriage means a woman:
can focus on the kids living instead of her own pursuits
be supported buy the spouse for a significant time
nests
fullfills societal expectation
commits to a man
commits to god
and other derogatory psychological states
Really now- what's the deal with men who want to get married? (Yup i have derogatory psychological reasons ready).
But hey- it's only life afterall...
2006-07-12 22:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Hymn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of our lives we have had romance and marriage glamorized.
Cinderella and Snow White turn into romance novels and movies where Prince Charming sweeps us off our feet and we live happily ever after.
The sad thing is that things do not turn out like that.
2006-07-12 22:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweethvn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you think about that only shows that you are so emotionally and psychologically immature and irresponsible. thats because women want relationship and they want to feel that someone can love them forever and they feel secure with that. but unlike you men..all you look for is sex and more sex with different women and you cant commit to one thats why you dont want marriage or even talk about it. grow up. the world is in desperate need of mature guys.
2006-07-12 21:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
worries about getting pregnant maybe....coz during 30's it will be difficult for her...i think
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2006-07-12 21:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋