2006-07-12 14:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I felt that way in my first marriage and if I had been honest in the beginning I never would have married him. Instead I hid my doubts and ended up miserable, made him miserable and went through a sad and bitter divorce. If you truly feel that way be honest and get out while you can with as little hurt as possible to you both.
2006-07-12 14:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, everyone feels that way at some point. People who are married for 50 years will tell you of the times that they had to cross that bridge and deal with feelings of disappointment.
Some relationships are definitely more satisfying than others. Your heart doesn't know sh*t about any of it. Your experience in relationships over time can tell you when one is going to really work incredibly well or not. On the other hand, most of us learn nothing from a bad relationship and we go on to repeat the mistake over and over again. If that is happening to you, the first thing to do is to look in the mirror and tell the person you see that she is responsible for you happiness and she isn't doing a very good job so far. Once you work through that turmoil, you can move on to your relationship with your husband. It may go better if you are convinced that he isn't responsible for your happiness.
2006-07-12 21:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - every day sadly -
my advice to all is date as long as you can
and if you wake up and realize you have made a mistake
RUN
as fast as you can
so you don't waste any more of each other's time or energy or emotion
2006-07-12 21:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by ninagiraffe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first draft is always full of mistakes
2006-07-12 21:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont marry for love marry for money
2006-07-12 21:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-12 21:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋