ok see i am msn messenger and i have been talking to him for at least a week and i really like him i mean hes the nicest guy i have met but there is just one problem he lives in Austraila and we talk together and i like it when we walk should i ask him if he likes me as a friend or as a girlfriend but SEROUSLY PEOPLE I AM NOT A KID! i need advice here i am dieing every night just to chat with him! and i know he is the same age as me because he talked to me but i am afraid something bad is going to happen. :(
2006-07-12 14:03:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait a while longer. After a week, you don't really know him. Get to know him really really really well before you do anything. After a while, you could ask him if you are just friends, or more. I had an online relationship last for almost a year (we met more than once in person), but there are some people that aren't who they seem. Just be careful.
2006-07-12 14:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kay R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so lucky to have found a soulmate. I do believe in love at first sight but not "site", if you'll pardon the play on words. I think your relationship is off to a great start but you really need to see each other and spend time in the real world before you'll know if this love is real. However, that said, regardless of your age, don't ever agree to meet in person someone that you've met online, unless you take along another friend. Even older people meet with disaster when they find the love of their internet life is a creepy, scary person.
2006-07-12 21:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's retrace a couple of things. First, you know him for a week, which is a start, but not enough to make any conclusions about what he is really like. It usually takes years to really know someone.
If he lives in a different country, you can't plan on meeting face to face. Maybe some phone calls, and perhaps phone calls between your family and his someday.
He is not your boyfriend, and you are not his girlfriend, whatever you or he says. It is an exciting and interesting relationship, but don't choose that kind of committment with someone that you can't be face to face with. It's not a healthy way to learn to be in a relationship.
In the meantime, he's a neat person to talk to, and that's great! Enjoy talking with someone from another place - it will be good for both of you. But don't make it hard on yourself by worrying about the boy/girl thing. Choose a good friendship here.
2006-07-12 21:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Polymath 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its up to you but personally why would you go out with a guy over the internet you honestly dont know everything about him what if he's a creep and just writes things you he knows you want to here, get to know im ALOT more if your serious dont move to fast!
2006-07-12 21:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by jolene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell him how you feel
If he doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if he says "no" so I can make plans
2006-07-12 21:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only "known" him for a week! Give it some time.
2006-07-12 21:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Max B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything rash.Wait , more time should shake something loose.Alert,DANGER WILL ROBINSON!
2006-07-12 21:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by mrimprovize59@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋