Has he been clear with her that he DOESN'T want the attention? Be sure of that first....
2006-07-12 13:48:19
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answer #1
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answered by oldsoul 3
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This chick is crazy. How did she get your phone number? Do they have kids together?? If so this is the only reason why they need to be in contact with one another. If not, why is your husband still accepting phone calls from her? You need to ask him. Sometimes with some people as long as the lines of communication are still left open, it gives them false hopes that they will get back together. All you have to go on is what your husband is telling you. So how do you know if he is telling you the truth? The next time this chick calls your house you need to set to a time to meet her face-to-face, to find out the other side of the story. Then you may find out why she keeps calling.
2006-07-12 20:56:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Ummmm you shouldnt NEED to do anything.. time for your HUSBAND to stand up to her i cant believe that he's not.. im guessing they have kids for her to be calling in the first place.. If they dont time to change all numbers.. but im guessing they do and they do need to have open lines of communications for the kids sake but 3 to 5 times a day is excessive.. and calling past normal waking hours unless its an emergency is crazy.. my suggestion to u is to talk to your husband.. and see if u can compromise.. possibly have him call the kids around a certain time each night.. tell him to let his x wife know he'll be calling at such times to talk to the kids and if after he's thru talking to the kids she needs to discuss anything with him, then thats the time to do it.. cut down to once a day.. and to also let her know that no phones calls will be tolerated after 9 pm unless its an emergency.. when she calls after 9 answer the phone first things said "is it an emergency.. when she says no.. tell her to call back at a decent hour and hang up" after several times of this she'll get the hint.. if she calls to discuss anything other then the kids that he "needs" to be concerned with that he needs to end the conversation promptly when its just for her own needs and not the needs of the children. My husbands x wife was like this as well calling at different hours of the night ect.. and since he's put his foot down about it, she's stopped .. and as soon as she realized he wasnt going to have a "Friend" conversation with her she has stopped that as well.. so it can be done but he has to be the one that realizes that only HE can put a stop to this..
Good luck...
2006-07-12 20:54:49
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answer #3
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answered by brwneyedgrl 7
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What do your husband say about it?
Why is he answering her calls?
Do they had kids? If so, are the calls about them?
Talk to him, tell him this is affecting your marriage. He will have to put an end (or if the calls have something to do with children, then a compromise must be attained).
Good luck
2006-07-12 20:50:30
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answer #4
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answered by umbralatin 3
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If this woman doesn't have any kids with this man,she has no business calling him at all at any time of the day. She sounds like she wants him and is trying to break you two up. She needs to respect you as his wife and go on with her life.
2006-07-12 20:50:57
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answered by T.Mack 5
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Get your husband to change the phone number and get it unlisted. IF not tell him you are going to. This is not cool yer hubby needs to put a stop to this. Its not your responsibility to have to deal with his ex IF I were you I would be pi*sed and would give her a piece of my mind!
2006-07-12 20:53:54
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answer #6
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answered by herbie36f 4
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Tell your husband that it is bothering you... and both of you decide what is an acceptable solution.
Once you've got the acceptable solution to both parties. (You and Hubby) Present it to crazy-x.
Hopefully she will take it will and respect your wishes... If she does not... Start to follow standard harassment procedures. (Restraining order etc.)
2006-07-12 20:49:52
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answered by ? 6
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Your husband needs to grow a "pair" and tell her to stop calling or is your husband flattered by the attention from his ex?????
2006-07-12 20:48:06
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answer #8
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answered by diverdownohio2004 2
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change your phone number.the only time women call like that is if they are still seeing each other.if he hasn't stopped her from calling something is wrong with this picture.
2006-07-12 20:50:45
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answered by Anonymous
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unfortunately, this isn't your problem to solve, it's his. he created the monster, now he should have to deal with her. tell him to tell her to stop calling the house. if she doesn't, change your numbers and tell her that you are seeking harassment charges against her.
2006-07-12 20:49:52
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answered by redpeach_mi 7
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You can always call this place...I forget who and have them block her number from calling.
2006-07-12 20:48:34
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answered by Melody 2
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