My hubby and i have been together for nine years and married for almost six years. Recently we have been having problems so bad that he was talking divorce, but i convince him that we can try and work it out by seperating for awhile.Because we both know that a little time apart will do us some good. But while we are sperated I'm not so sure what to do as far as saving our marriage?? Should we pretend to date to find out where the love went or just leave eachother alone and let nature take its place?
2006-07-12 13:41:08 · 4 answers · asked by missdlite00@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is something you and hubby need to figure out for yourselves. I would suggest you see a counselor for starters. What are your issues? Lay ground rules can either of you see others while your seperated? Do you date? Have coffee? Sex? Make sure you both agree what the seperation entitles and agree on that togeather. Time apart to decide how you really feel and what you want is not a bad thing but be sure it is something you both are going to agree to and follow. Good Luck
2006-07-12 14:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave each other alone for a little while, then mabey 1 day a week go to dinner and talk and let Nature take over from there
2006-07-12 21:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-07-12 20:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pretend be honest
2006-07-12 20:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by starla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋