Been with my b/friend 3 and a half years.He binge drinks.I am a teacher from Ireland living here illegally.Stressed out hate my job, I house clean because I cant do anything else here with no social security number.Have decided to go home so I can terach again.I so hope he will follow me but he doesnt know- he says he can make three times the money here than he would at home.I have no quality of life here- have to work from morn til eve with no break 6 days a week 51 wks of the yr to earn close what I would in Ireland.I have done this for him for the past three yrs.He says he want s to marry me and get engaged at christmas that i could stop working so hard he would provide for me more.But I am so sick of his binge drinking.i have spent too many lonely nights in this apartment including 4th July weekend... he drank from Sat eve 7 pm( came home that night) up next morn at 9:30 and off to the bar and I didnt see him again til Thurs eve when I came home from work.Should I just forget him
2006-07-12 13:34:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First ask him to stop drinking, to seek out help, period. If not, then go home, back to Ireland. He's not worth all your suffering, hardwork, lonliness.
2006-07-12 13:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by yep_yep_2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes go back home without him , cause if ins catches you , they ll deport you anyway . and you just keep suffering here , so go back and alone if you have to
2006-07-12 20:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, FORGET HIM, HE'S A LOOSER. YOU CAN GET A BETTER MAN SOMEWHERE ELSE.... LEAVE NOW
2006-07-12 20:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋