I had unprotected sex with another male and he performed oral sex on me. I feel terrible right now, is there any chance he didn't get it? I'm praying that he didn't. Should I tell him about it, I know his phone number?
2006-07-12 13:21:30 · 33 answers · asked by wesbanktonfan 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Surely there has to be some chance that he didnt contract it, but call him be honest and as pissed off as hes going to be at least he can go get checked out ASAP
2006-07-12 13:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bluris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put your feelings and preferences on hold and call him. It can take up to six months for an HIV test to test positive, and he needs to know so that he can avoid having unprotected sex in the meantime and possibily passing it on to others.
There is a possibility that he didn't catch it but you're playing Russian Roullette with someone else's life. If you don't tell him and present him the opportunity to protect future partners, you might have a great deal more to feel bad about than just him.
2006-07-12 13:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by dmb_fanatic2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is just a random question and this did not really happen. You are suppose to tell anyone you have sex with being protected or unprotected that you are HIV +. You should contact him as soon as possible and you should contact someone for support or join a support group because you are in denial that you are ill and the seriousness of the disease. Good luck.
2006-07-12 13:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by ktilton13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I artwork with in Pathology and that i understand a large purchase about human beings being HIV efficient because I manage it first hand, at the starting up it may take a lengthy time period for it to easily benefit into your immune device so searching on even as he had the blood attempt in ordinary words time can tell, I easily have seen many situations even as its been years after till extra blood exams have shown they're HIV efficient. I propose you tell him how that is making you sense and ask him to have some extra blood exams, And repeat back in 3 months time. that is on your perfect interest to finish that. i'm hoping you'll confront him and that i'm hoping he has extra finding out. Did he placed on preserving even as being intimate including her by potential of both vaginal or anal sex?
2016-11-06 07:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defintily tell him. While the chances of him actualy getting the virus are fairly low, it is still a good possibility. Actualy telling him could be hard though, but it really is the right thing to do.
I would look into maybe seeing if there are any support groups, and or clinics or something like that in your area. They can probably give you tips on how to tell him, and or help you through the process.
The only thing I can tell you is good luck.
2006-07-12 13:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by evil_kandykid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact him. There is a chance he didn't get it. I know a man who has AIDS, and his wife didn't get it, neither did any of his kids, and that was after 17 years with her before he found out he had it (he got it after about 5 years with her). So there is a chance, but it's always better to be safe than sorry. Contact him and let him know, and don't do that anymore unless it's with someone who already has it, 'cause then it doesn't really matter. Good luck, and I hope for the best with this one.
2006-07-12 13:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by rliedtky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say anything like kill yourself or you're an idiot..
but
I do think that the best thing to do would be to tell him right away. The sooner he can get treatment the better. He may never become positive but he COULD and you as a person should WANT to tell him.
Just ask yourself this:
Wouldn't you want someone to do the same for you?
2006-07-12 15:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by kara_lacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a chance that he didn't contract the virus. You most definately need to own up to your poor choice and call the guy. Yes, he is going to be mega-pissed. At best, your decision is going to cost him six months of inconvenience and worry. At worst, you have completely changed life as he knows it. Please do the right thing and give him a call. I am glad for one thing: you feel guilty. You should, but it shows that this is something you know you shouldn't do, and won't do again.
2006-07-12 13:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why and how does a known infected individual in clear conscience not use protection and tell there sexual partner to give them an informed choice! Don't just feel bad do the right thing!
2006-07-12 13:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by lainey lain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral sex is lower risk than regular sex, but there is a chance he contracted the virus so he need to know ASAP so he doesnt spread it further if he is infected.
i think the health department will contact him for you and just say "someone diagnosed with HIV says they had relations with you, you need to come get tested" if you arent willing to do it yourself. you really need to let him know though either through the state health department or by calling himself so in the event he is infected, he doesnt give it to someone else
2006-07-12 13:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋