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2006-07-12 13:09:38 · 16 answers · asked by It's your gurl 1 in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

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I agree with Angela. 'Til death do us part is what I believed. My grandparents are still married, my parents are still married, my friends' parents are still married.

Then I got married... after 4 years of marriage, my then husband asked where I was going one morning. I said to walk my dog. You walk your dog every morning? Only the past 4 years.

He didn't really like my friends or family, so I slowly got cut off from them. While eating 2 weekly fast food burgers with his dad. (I don't like fast food).

Meanwhile I became depressed, and stopped eating. One night at a fast food dinner when his father asked me how I was doing, I said, "I am going to shoot myself" he said that's nice, my ex never noticed. So I knew they ignored me. Shortly after I woke up and realized I was 98lbs and 5'4". That night I told him to make a choice. It wasn't me. So I am divorced.

Do I want to get married again? Yes. But I have spent 3 years with this man. I love him and don't question how I feel and believe this will be 'til death do us part. And since we both have debts to pay off first, we have another 18 months to make certain.

2006-07-12 13:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by mj_schrader 3 · 1 0

It depends on the situation. I think that too many people get married too quickly and when they know they shouldn't because divorce has become a quick way out. However, I can't say that people should never get divorced because there are relationships out there that are physically/emotionally abusive. There are also people that just grow apart and if they both agree and can find happiness elsewhere then they should. But I really don't like people that meet (like in Vegas or something), get married after a week, and get divorced after two. I think it's abusing the idea of marriage and the reason why divorce is there in the first place.

2006-07-12 13:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Angela B 2 · 0 0

I believe in marrying somebody you love working hard to make that love work for you two. Then if things don't work out continue working. The only two reason that would be justifications for divorce would be adultery and fornication. Just old fashioned I guess, but that's what I learned the Bible says one should divorce for. And if your mate cheats on you, I believe he/she will do it again, call me black-hearted or whatever, but that's what I believe. None of that once, shame on you twice shame on me stuff. No Trust, no respect= NO LOVE. And that's that.

2006-07-12 13:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by MzzandtheChuchuBees 5 · 0 0

I think everyone has that right to get divorced. Because who knows if the relationship could turn abusive emotionally, physically, or anything else. But if its a problem that can easily be resolved, I say work it out.

2006-07-12 13:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0 0

I agree with it. But only if you've actually tried everything to work it out between each other. If you have tried to work it out whether it be thigns like therapy and it still hasn't then I agree with a divorce.
My parents and almost all my friends' parents are divorced
ppl who divorce from the instant there is a disagreement are cowards.

2006-07-12 13:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I can answer this question from experience. I was married to a man who would not work or help take care of our son. He was also mean to us. You better believe I divorced his BUTT! I am now remarried to someone very sweet and I am very happy!

2006-07-12 13:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think the term "til death do us part" is a crock. people change, and so do relationships. i believe, if you're married, you should do your best to work things out, but if it doesn't happen, divorce should be an option. life's too short to stay in an unhappy situation just because society thinks you should.

2006-07-12 13:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by krazy4hd 3 · 0 0

yes, if a married couple do not want to stay together they should get a divorce. As long as everyone is civilised about it it will be fine.

2006-07-12 13:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by rumpel 4 · 0 0

if they relationship doesnt work then divorce you can find someone else a lot of people i know have had a divorce and fond other people

2006-07-12 13:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0 0

i think divorce is a great thing it's making me rich since i am a divorce attorney !!!

2006-07-12 13:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by RAG MAN 1 · 0 0

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