My son was born June 18th. His daddy left me in December because he couldnt trust me. (i never gave him a reason to not trust me- he just has problems--30yrs old) He didnt come to the hospital when i was there the whole 3 days-didnt even call. Then when i got out of the hospital, i took the baby to see him and he had changed his mind and he wanted a family and to be with us. We have been having sex, and my vagina has been really tight..i stopped bleeding. Well yesterday i started bleeding again and i went to his house today and we had sex and after we were done...he said "you cheated on me" "you feel different" "you feel looser" I havent cheated on this man... never have -- never even crosses my mind. What the hell is wrong with him? What do i do? I love him and i want to be a family. I cant lose him over something that didnt even happen!! Please help!
2006-07-12 12:36:28 · 3 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he can't trust you or believe you then you should be with a guy who does. well i can understand that you love him so much so try to work things out with him but if that doesn't work than you deserve better than that.
2006-07-12 12:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Annette A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing having sex this soon? I think this man has to many problems, and take a look at your own. He wants to be a family but has his own place. Where was the baby when you went to "his house". Are you in control of anything, or just waiting for him to decide. You have a baby, take care of your baby and yourself, you will not have time to worry about him, what he thinks, or of a relationship if you do it right.
2006-07-12 12:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by st pete rn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you love him and you never cheated on him and that you really want to start a family.
2006-07-12 12:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by avielleb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋