2006-07-12 12:30:48 · 54 answers · asked by a249703 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It is her business if she cares about you. Coke is bad news - it seems like lots of fun but it brings out the worst in people.
If you are in a committed relationship with someone and then use a substance that brings out the worst in you, it is their business. Is this the new you? Just occasionally? So how will she know when she will be comfortable around you and when she won't since you are using this mood and mind altering substance?
If at anytime she can get together with you and you could be under the influence she will not be able to count on you being the person she loves and the relationship will destablize and end. She knows that and it is important enough to her to preserve your relationship that she wants to keep you from going down that road.
Peace!
2006-07-12 12:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~*~ First of all, that is not healthy for your body.. Second, it is your girlfriend's business.. Stop for a minute and think.. Put yourself in her position... She is in a relationship with you and if she didn't care about you, she wouldn't have flipped out.. I don't know exactly what you mean by flipped out because really there are many ways of getting your point across without yelling and being violent with someone.. again I'm not there and don't know exactly what went down.. I'm taking it from the point of view that she cares for you.. You should thank her for worrying about you.. Be upfront with her about the things that you do.. Its never a good idea to keep secrets from each other.. Tell her exactly who you are and what you are about.. Always be honest... She should do the same for you... That will save you problems in the future....Then tell her, look, I just told you who I am and what i'm about... you have two choices, either you can stay with me and accept me for who i am or you can leave me and find someone better... The choice is yours.. Good Luck.. I hope that you found my answer helpful and I hope that you make the right decision.. ~*~
2006-07-12 19:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mexitaliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her business. You've been keeping your drugs a secret or you wouldn't have used the word "caught". That's a very big secret to keep in a relationship.
She has every right to worry about you, every right to be concerned about the effects of your drug abuse on her health, and every right to decide if she wants to be a junkie's girlfriend or not.
Furthermore, if you get caught with cocaine, say in the car, and she's with you, she will get arrested too. If it's her car, she could wind up in jail. It is her business.
How could you possibly think that it's not her business? That's a very self-centered view. If you really believe it, you have a very serious problem.
She needs to dump you NOW.
2006-07-12 12:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a right to know. A lot of very smart people choose not to be involved with someone who does drugs and who may potentially have to deal with a horrific addiction that will mean that they will lie, cheat and steal to get enough money for their next fix. Let alone if they start the inevitable path to harder drugs which could leave HER open to transmissable diseases that you catch from unclean needles.
Believe me, it IS her business and if she were smart, she wouldn't stick around. Why take the chances and risks involved with involving herself with a druggie when she could meet someone with a far better future, one who cares about themself enough NOT to do drugs or take the chance of becoming addicted. She'd be far better off with someone ALL present than someone barely there because they're either high or trying to figure out how to get their next fix.
2006-07-12 12:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do her a favour and dump her...she doesn't need the crap of dealing with a drug addict in her life or you worse you influencing her and getting her hooked too. And even if you don't think you're a drug addict now (which I doubt) you will be soon if you keep doing that crap. I knew a guy like you who got his girlfriend hooked. She was a good girl and a great student with a bright future until she met him. Now she's pregnant and they're having a baby born as a drug addict because neither of them could stop during the pregnancy.
2006-07-12 12:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh oh pick the ex-junkie over here yeah me....o.d. on coke not fun. its not exactly the thing you want to. great its fun I liked to smoke weed while blowing my lines. but lots of jail, mistakes, people being hurt, and losing every real friends I had couldn't stop me.....once a week it started the 4 grams a day.....then hey wheres all my money at? oh yeah up my nose....that will kill you and if not it will ruin your life completely......I hold that high on my list of keep it away from me.....ben off it for 4 years....if I ever think of it I start craving....I want it so bad my teeth go numb, I can still taste it if I try hard enough....I smeel certain things and want it.....I can't tell you to not do it but your girl loves you.....don't let that ruin what you have.....I lost damn close to everything....PLEASE.....this coming from a total stranger.....put that **** away...buy your girl some flowers...tell her you love her...thats better than any high you can ever have....do the right thing...its not always easy but if you try you can do it...and your girl will help you
2006-07-12 12:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by firestoneasetech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that after you break up with her, because if you're gonna do coke, you'll be doing her a kindness by splitting up. You're on a downhill slope, so don't drag her down with you. There are plenty of skanks to spend time with if you're going to use coke, but watch your stash....they'll be more interested in your snow than in you.
Really bad move, bro. Take it from one who's been there.
2006-07-12 12:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by yellowcab208 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully, if you are dating her it is her business. I know people who have done coke, and I say known because eventually they weren't really worth knowing. Coke ruins your mind and that is the most important thing you got. Be happy she flipped out because that means you still have people who care about you, meaning you still got hope.
2006-07-12 12:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Big J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her business! Anything that affects you as a couple is her business! Please show her how much you care (?) and leave her and build a huge fence with no gates and razor wire on top so she will have a chance at a successful life! She will only go down with you if she sticks around.
2006-07-12 12:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it IS her business. If she`s your girlfriend, she has a stake in what you do or do not do. especially if you are driving, high, with her in the car, living together, and keep your drugs in your apt or house, or doing them when she`s around. If you don`t like that, drop her, she doesnt need your sorry butt around anyway. get clean, dude, and get a real life.
2006-07-12 12:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋