i been trying to get pregnant since Feb and nothing yet i have tried it all they tell me I'm in good health

Question

so now im going crazy i have 2 lil boys and we want to try for our lil girl but nothings working out i think my man is tiered of sex :) and thats kinda hard for a guy to let go if you know what i mean but we still keep trying i dont now what to do anymore

Answer 1

Here's some trying to conceive tricks and tips:

Before one actually tries to conceive, it seems like it will happen immediately! Truth be told, many women take up to a whole year to conceive. After that year, doctors may intervene with medical help.

Perhaps a good place to start is to determine if you are ovulating. Most women ovulate 14 days after the first day of their last period. You can do ovulation tests around that time to determine when you are ovulating. If you do not get a positive result, a doctor may help you to ovulate by starting you on a medicine called clomid.

Some women slightly elevate their hips for 20 minutes after intercourse, to ensure that more of the sperm comes in contact with the cervix. 20 minutes is an adequate amount of time, because after that time, any sperm that did not enter, will be killed by the differing pH of the vagina. Some women however, choose to use 'instead' cups, which are more commonly used for one's period.

There is also something called 'Fertility Tea', or a similar name. Apparently, it will help you to conceive.

Some women have also tried half a tablespoon of cough syrup for a few days before ovulation, claiming that it helps to thin out the lining of the uterus, hence making it easier for the baby to implant itself into the uterine wall. I'm not sure if it's safe to try, or even if it works - but it's just another tidbit of information for you!

For the average couple, having sex once per day provides the best chance of getting pregnant.

The woman-on-top position isn't great for pregnancy, since ejaculate may flow out.

FACTS:
Most women have a 15 to 25 percent chance of getting pregnant during their cycle.
Nearly 50 percent of couples conceive during the first 3 months.
About 75 percent of couples conceive during the first 6 months.
Up to 90 percent of couples conceive during the first year.
On the average, there are 280 days from the first day of your last period to your due date

Answer 2

Stop trying!!!!! If the both of you are healthy, if there's no problems with fertilization, then all should be okay. You might be under a lot of stress from all the trying. Just relax, take a breath, and calm down. Take walks together, sit outside in the evening and chat, and have sex when you're relaxed and ready. Just forget about trying to become pregnant and be together....It'll happen in due time.

Answer 3

The more stressed you are the harder it will be to concieve. Relax take a night away from the kids with the hubby (hopefully during ovulation) and remove the stress of trying and making it seem like work. Just relax and maybe that little girl will show her face soon.

Good luck!

Answer 4

That's one of the disadvantages of TTC, you might be trying too hard, relax, don't do anything, let ir happen, have sex whenever, sometimes people try too hard and believe me it is frustrating, if I were you I would forget about it and save your sex life first, you already have 2 babies.

Answer 5

Go to google, and look for an ovulation calendar, and 2 days before and the day of, and two days after you ovulate have sex, elevate your hips for 30 minutes, and do it missionary..

Answer 6

Relax and don't try so hard, remember that saying a watched pot never boils.You're getting too stressed out.

Answer 7

im right there with you, me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant since april. hang in there. we have a little boy also, and we are hoping for a little girl too. try searching under pregnancy, they have different calenders to track your ovulation date and also a chinese gender prediction,its pretty neat.

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!