2006-07-12 12:15:49 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you use this example-when a gorilla wants a female gorilla they bang on there chest as loud and as hard as they can to show the girl he has what it takes to protect her.
In some cases, it is just a game. I believe if the man is tough only when necessary he is not putting on a show. If the man buys you flowers, he is sweet. If opens the car door for you he is a gentleman. If he has a dependable car, he is responsible. If he has a good job he is hardworking and disciplined, If has been on his current job for more than 2 years he is focused, if he calls you after the date and said he had a great time and do you think we can do it again some day he is comfortable with you. This is worth keeping... Just remember living together changes things sharing checking account's make it challenging and going on a long well planned road trip (only if u have a good cell phone and someone knows where your going and that you will stay in touch) a road trip is a great started to a long term commitment for the future... The theory here is if you can get a long real well dating, and think you would like to take it to the next level, than a car ride for about 6-8 hours you will inevitably start to really know one another. You need to make sure you are going to do something that you both like (activities)....
2006-07-12 12:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are many factors that will determine who you should choose. First you should think about what you want. Do you want a long term relationship? Who can you see that with? You said the new guy makes you laugh, what else? Is he sweet? Will he treat you better? And how long have you been with your sweet guy? Are you willing to give this up for a good joke?
2006-07-12 12:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what makes this guy so irresistible other than what your man has to offer? Obviously your man is lacking something that your not interested in anymore? Ask yourself is this new guy worth lousing what you already have in your relationship? Has the courtship become dull? Do you love him enough to let go? What if this new man doesn't work out if you decide to leave would you be able to go back? Think about all the pros & cons & let your heart do the guiding... Hopefully this will work!!! Good Luck
2006-07-12 12:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by SoooMad07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you would choose who you want to be with and a man wont choose a woman but to have 2.
Who are you mostly happy with? think about it if it was 50 years from now who would you want to spend 50 years with? Who knows how to treat you like a woman? I always wish i could find a man like my dad. He is funny and sweet. He knows how to treat a woman with respect.
2006-07-12 12:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you should just date until you find a sweet and funny man. This is what you are implying? Break away from them both before someone gets hurt.
2006-07-12 12:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by charliepea2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with your man! Maybe you should stay single and play the field more until your really serious about being with 1 man. Either way be open with both men. It ok to like 2 guys but its not ok if they have no clue about each other. Thats not fair. Good luck
2006-07-12 12:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by *♥* Igotorbs*♥* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's simple, the man your with. I think you have commitment problems. I bet the sweet guy wish he could read this because he'll probably make the decision for you. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-07-12 12:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what your taste is. If you want to be entertained then chose the other man or if you want to be with some sweet and know he will take care of you then keep the man you have right now.
2006-07-12 12:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by lakersforlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with your man. If your man is a good man you will regret hurting him. You should cut all ties with the other guy if you can not keep things between you and him as friends and nothing more.
2006-07-12 12:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by LouMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you really are attracted to. The new man may be the one but he may be a jerk once you get by the funny. Funny is not everything. It's great.........but get to know him. Be honest with the old friend about it too.
2006-07-12 12:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋