i was just wanderin if sex hurts the first time im 14 and am thinking about it but i dont know how much pain i 'll have to go thur how bad does it hurt and should i do it @ my age?
2006-07-12 12:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
it depends on how prepared you are for it.
if you're nervous and can't relax or if the guy you're with is only in it for himself and doesn't care if you're ready for penetration and/or doesn't care how you're feeling - yes, it can hurt...
if all things are ready for it including - and most importantly you - pain should be minimal.
that being said do you know when your body is ready for penetration? if not, i suggest you wait.
NEVER let someone press you into having sex. it isn't the big deal it's made out to be - especially for a girl and especially at 14. and personally i think you're far too young. ;)
2006-07-12 12:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by littleminx 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
NO, you shouldn't do it at your age. Give yourself a few more years and respect your body. When you have sex for the first time, yes it hurts. You also open a floodgate of opportunity to get a bunch of std's or pregnant.......regardless if you use a condom or not you are still at risk, and believe me, when you contract an std you will feel that your life is over because it is quite devastating and humiliating. Do yourself a favor and wait.....if a boy is pressuring you, he's not worth your time...you're better than that, right?
2006-07-12 19:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by bluez 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The brief pain is from tearing of the hymen. And, NO you should not have sex at your age, kid. Your body is not done changing, there are SO many risks including pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, and other things that may follow you all your life. Wait. Be your own person, get to know yourself first.
2006-07-12 19:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by gracefulangie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sex does hurt the first time but gets easier each time thereafter. You shouldn't be thinking about this at your age. Please consider the risks, but if you must do this (for what reason I don't know?) be responsible, use protection.
2006-07-12 19:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Debs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it hurts
thats y u do it wen ur old enough, and think possitivly about it
my mom told me if u lov the guy then it wont hurt
i dont hink u can lov someone at 14?!
com on ur just a kid. i was thnkin bout somethin else wen i was
ur age.
put down the condoms and pick up sometin else.ur still a damn kid
ur out of ur mind?
2006-07-13 23:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but just the first few thrusts and maybe the time after.
2006-07-12 19:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by jozlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pain? i dont know.
should you do it? NO. you are still very young, and not married. plus, you would be at greater risk for sexually transmitted diseases. go ask your mommy about it first.
2006-07-12 19:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. You could get an STD or get pregnant. Wait!
2006-07-12 20:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
smh @ 14..sex should be the last thing on your mind..
2006-07-12 19:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by All Grown Up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes it does and u often bleed to......save it girl ur virginity ,,,, i just thought whats all that about it was crap
2006-07-12 19:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by clubbinbabe30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋