someone that has hurt u and used u and wants u back as a friend
2006-07-12 12:06:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for me..i will always forgive, but it will always be in the back of mind, and i wouldn't trust them the same...
2006-07-12 12:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by pshh =] 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should forgive for your own benefit, not theirs. It doesnt mean you still have to be friends, but at least forgive them. How are you supossed to prosper and recieve good things in life when you are dwelling on the bad things that happened to you? Your own thoughts will hold you down, so get rid of the bad ones, and start thinking about all the good things you are going to do in life despite the fact that someone hurt you. Rise above and be victorious. Holding onto that pain instead of forgiving is giving that person the power to keep hurting you. Take that power away, be strong, and move on.
2006-07-12 12:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nurse Monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yes but ,the forget part does not mean forget. It means learn to get over it and don't stay in what happened in the past.
2006-07-12 12:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, to say that you will forgive someone, but not forget what has happened, is another way of saying that you will never forgive them. Everytime that they do something that hurts you, you will remember what they did to you in the first place. If they do it once shame on them, if they do it twice, shame on you... don't put yourself in a position to be hurt by someone who supposedly cares about you.
2006-07-12 12:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive? yes. Forget? No. Compromise? Maybe.
2006-07-12 12:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive but never forget. I forgive people but I don't forget what they did so I don't get hurt again.
2006-07-12 12:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by LouMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive, yes. Forget, never.
2006-07-12 12:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friends you hold close and dear to your heart, others you hold at arms length, put that friend in the catagory where they belong and again forgive but never forget.
2006-07-12 12:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Doctor feel good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know sometimes you think you are able to forgive the person for what they did to you but the truth is your always going to be thinking about what he/she did to you and in that case you wont be able to forgive if you cant forget. its just the truth
2006-07-12 12:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by precious_vanessa_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. But it's usually forgive but not forget.
2006-07-12 12:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There r only 2 options:
1.If u r still in love with him u MUST NOT agree you two be friends.It's pretty silly and y know it-I'm sure-that things won't work out!
2.If u got over him you can be friends.With that way u will saw him that u have great heart and maybe he'll realise what he lost
2006-07-12 13:05:09 · answer #11 · answered by Maria Monica T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋