I've been talking to this guy and he tells me he loves me. He makes everything seem so pretty when he talks to me; he says that in some way or some how i did something right but i don't know if i should believe him. Sometimes he makes me feel as if i am the only person in his life and i'm not! He's married and has two kids. what should i do? I really like him a lot and it hurts to think that he's just using me to have a little fun.
2006-07-12 12:05:17 · 18 answers · asked by grisi_05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once again.. i'll state.. STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN.. have some respect for yourself and for the fact that he is MARRIED.. how far could this really go even IF he left his wife and CHILDREN!!! for you..what makes u think that if he can abandon his family that he couldnt do the same to u?? are u that nieve that u cant see this man has zero morals or values if he's doing this to his family.. but will go even a step further.. His children will alway look at you as the homewrecker and they will NEVER like you which will only cause more problems for you and him.. pushing him even further away from you.. Or you'll find urself one day in a fight with him and he'll say to hurt you, I knew i should of never left my family for you.. and resent u .. IF he even leaves his family.. cause well if he can get down ur pants and still maintain a household with his family, well then he gets to have his cake and eat it too, and when he gets sick of u he'll throw u away like your trash.. SO is this what u want??????? If u have feelings for him.. tell him to give u a call when he's divorced but untill then u cant be a part of his life and totally disconnect from him.. and dont become a HOME WRECKER!!!
2006-07-12 12:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO! You should not believe him. If he doesn't want to be with his wife then he shouldn't be married anymore. It's not right for him to be dragging you, his wife, and his 2 kids around. Yes, he's probably promising you the world but what kind of world is that? Would you want to be in a world where you're told your #1 but you're not important enough for him to give his whole heart and life to only you? If I were you I would just let him know that he cannot keep going on like that and neither can you. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and only you! Good luck!
2006-07-12 19:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by shadie_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men say whatever they can to keep a girlfriend. I'm sure if he hasn't already told you he would leave his wife for you he will tell you that and have no intentions of doing so. You need to move on girl. Honestly do you really want a man that cheated on his wife to be with you? He would do the same to you and not think twice about it.
2006-07-12 20:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Leave the man. Getting involved with a married person is recipe for disaster. It sounds like he's just playing you just to get into your pants. What is it that your married friend is saying? I'm sure you have seen movies that have a plot like this and seen what happens so you should know that this wont end well. Married men never leave their wives. That is a true fact.
2006-07-12 19:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is that you will get hurt at the end. Whether you like him a lot or not. The saddest part of it is you gonna hurt the wife and the kids too and you don't know how much damage it may cause. Try to find you someone else or you gonna regret it. It's painful I know but do it for your own good...
Good Luck...
2006-07-12 19:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.How would you feel if you were married and your husband did the same to you.He is tell you what you want to hear to get in your pants.If he really loved you he would be with you.Don't keep falling for his lies.Do the right thing and find a single man not a married one.You might open the door for drama you are not ready for.
2006-07-12 19:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) put yourself in his wifes position and consider how you would feel about 'the other woman' (you!)
(b) you are in love with a person that is unfaithful to someone he promised to be faithful to. Not to mention his kids.
Get some self-esteem, go to counseling if you have to. Open your eyes wide and see the kind of person that would do such things. You are fooling yourself terribly if you think you are his soulmate and he would never do it to you too. If not...we will see a question from you in a few years "my husband cheated on me and my kids, what should i do"
2006-07-12 19:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by 2thseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad relationship it will never work and if he did leave his wife he would have to pay alot of childsupport. She would always have him in court and problems till there 18. You are his fun time because she so busy taking care of him and the kids.
Get away and find someone single it more for you. More time and money.
2006-07-12 19:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's just using you for a little fun........what else would he need you for? He's already got the wife...he's already got the kids....he's not going to leave, believe me. I bet he tells you that him and his wife have a terrible relationship and they never have sex and maybe even sleep in separate beds......don't you think if it was that bad, he'd leave? Respect yourself enough to not get involved in that situation. A man will tell you whatever he needs to to get a piece of a**.
2006-07-12 19:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is just using you and telling you what you want to hear. It's a dead end road, turn around and get a life with someone else, unless you like being the other woman. He won't leave his wife, trust me.
2006-07-12 19:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋