Some times I just don't know whether I am a bi or straight or even a lesbo. I don't feel easy in front of a lady, but I am totally at ease with guys and I can have sex with mens. I can't even imagine having it with a woman since I am so shy with them maybe because too self conscious. So what am I? Is this normal?
2006-07-12 12:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
From here out, listen to what you know:
1. You like guys
2. You are interested in girls, but are cautious.
From this I would say you are bi-curious. But do not label yourself until you know. The only way you will know, is if you fall in love with the same gender. If you already have, then ease up a little. Labeling can do serious damage if done wrong. Wait until YOU can label yourself not what others think. They do not know you. Only YOU know YOU.
Russ out.
2006-07-12 12:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by russ2246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dun know how old are you. However if you can feel good with men, and like sex with your boyfriend(s). I dun think the lesbian will be an issue to you. if you thinkl of having sex with ladies, then it will be an issue. Do things that is right in your views and it should turn out fine.
Normally girls can always get along easily with other girls, so I think maybe your character also plays a part as I am not too sure of who you actually mixed around with in your younger days .
2006-07-12 22:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual to have doubts or have a hard time sorting things out. How old are you? If you feel good with men, and like sex with your boyfriend(s) why the lesbian issue at all? Take things as they come, do what seems right, and it'll all be ok in the end. Just respect yourself and respect other people and no matter where you end up, you'll be ok.
2006-07-12 19:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a female and have sex with men, you're perfectly normal. you feel uneasy thinking of having sex with women...you're normal.
Even having some fun with a fellow female is not wrong or being a lesbian but just exchabging and knowing the nedds of another woman.
we talk about men and girl stuff all the while and doing some is perfectly alright...provided it dont get out of hand. you know what i mean. i do it sometimes and all are normal and still friends but closer as friends.
2006-07-13 01:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're straight with a hint of being a bi.
2006-07-13 00:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by pink_heart18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your attracted to women, your a dike, if not, your normal, sounds like some one is trying to pressure you into something. If it doesnt feel natural, it isnt.
2006-07-12 19:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by NNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur just bi curious...yes its normal
2006-07-12 19:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with the one that makes you feel comfortable
2006-07-12 19:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just love sex , ,, cool.
2006-07-12 19:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by xabrty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BI-CURIOUS
2006-07-12 19:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by MOGLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋