2006-07-12 11:49:18 · 17 answers · asked by gray_snickers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's okay to be in love, yuo can't help who you love.
2006-07-12 11:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by cassyortiz85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this, it's NEVER a good idea to involve yourself with someone who's married. Even if they are on the rocks. There is so much more involved than just "falling in love". Other people's lives get involved. Especially if they have kids.
Just put yourself in the other woman's position. Would you want your husband hooking up with another woman? Every marriage hits it's bumps. But those who truly care need to figure it out. And it doesn't help when some other person gets involved. You could end up being the "nail in the coffin" to a marriage that can be salvageable.
And chances are if he can do this to his current wife. What makes you think that he wouldn't do it to you. And being in love doesn't guarantee it won't. I'm sure at one point him and his wife were very much in love.
Leave them be to work things out by themselves. If (without your interference) things don't work out between them. And they end up ending the marriage. Then pursue your desires. Until then stay well away.
Anyone that tells you it's okay, has probably cheated on their spouse, or girlfriend/boyfriend. Remember the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater". Until they "grow up".
2006-07-12 19:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by JustAdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.. if a person is married you need to stand fully away from it untill the divorce is final, how would u feel if you were the one married to this man knowing that while u might be trying to fix the marriage another woman was trying to lure him out of it.. Respect yourself not to be included in such a triangle of deceet.. Respect the fact that although he may be in an unstable marriage that he is in fact still married. Be well aware that men have been known to say they are unhappy and on the verge of getting a divorce.. but never leave their families and only string u along for the ride so they can have their cake and eat it too.. Your best bet is just to steer clear of these types of relationship.. Tell him to give u a call when the divorce is final.. till then he needs to get his life together..
2006-07-12 18:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can fall in love with any one, but from a distance. a rocky stage is still married and might get you murdered.
2006-07-12 18:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Men say they're in a 'rocky' marriage(or it's about over) and women say that their husbands aren't there enough(or it's about over), to get a piece of a$$.
2006-07-12 18:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to fall in-love.We can't help who we fall in-love with! BUT....you really shouldn't get involved.He has a wife!...it's not right for any girl to be a side snack!......no matter how much he tells you he loves you!!.....if he really does, he'll divorce her before even asking anything from you.That means he respects you. If not, he'll do the same to you.
Good luck and stand your ground! :)
2006-07-12 19:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of. Wait until the marriage is officially done with. Then go ahead with your love fest
2006-07-12 18:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Shelby♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... There is nothing wrong with 'falling-in-love' with someone; you can't control our feeling but we can choose to DO SOMETHING or NOT.
If you do, then you know its wrong b/c you are already UNSURE about it in the first place. If there are doubts, then its there for a reason. Don't do it!!!
W.
2006-07-12 18:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Wyndell R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the marrige is over and then go on but you never know if they still love each other untill it happens.
2006-07-12 18:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by any advice? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but make sure you don't help him cheat on his wife even if their in a rocky edge, also don't try to be in his life to much!
2006-07-12 19:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by KBG355 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. all men that are looking for something on the side say their marriage is on the rocks and when they're busted they go back to their wives.
2006-07-12 19:00:05 · answer #11 · answered by tampa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋