My boyfriend wants to break up with me for da while dat i am gone (2 days) and he would like to get back together when i come back. I asked him why he was telling me dat and if it was an excues to break up with me and he said "no" that he wants me to have fun and not to worry about anything.A nd i don't know what to do or say.I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-12 11:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I fink ur boyfriend is making a point tht if yew kiss some 1 else while ur away. Tht yew wont be keeping it from him.
But on the other hand this might give him the impression that he can go an do things with other girls.
My advise is if yew want to stay with him when yew get bk DNT break up cz if yew do an another girl comes along in the 2 days you might lose him but i guess yew dnt want to do tht.
So stay with him
Yew can have fun while ur away with out it have guys involed.
2006-07-12 11:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is using that as an excue to break up up with you. It doesn't seem clear why he would would get mad if you are gone for two days. It's not like you see him every day. Sit and talk to him to find out what the problem is actually. You sound like a smart girl so do the smart thing. Peace.
2006-07-12 11:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by young kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 04:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by mizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend wanted to break up with me for 2 days while I go out of town, I wouldn't get back together when I get back. Why would you want to be with a person who doesn't trust you while you are out of town? Trust must be in a relationship in order for it to succeed. He obviously doesn't trust you or is insecure because he wants you to have fun! What an idiot!
2006-07-12 11:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old your bf is, but I suggest you give him what he wants because he is dumb enough to think that this is way to get away with cheating on you or whatever. Keep in mind that if you concede to this, you'll be conceding to a lot of other things that you won't like in the long run. Dump that dumb a**!
2006-07-12 12:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Blah2Blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!? how old are you?! If he wants to make up some stupid reasons to break up with you when your just going to be gone for two days ...than you guys shouldn't be dating in the first place! he doesn't really want you. he doesn't deserve you.
2006-07-12 11:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this dude is getting out of a guilt trip. Sounds like he wants to sample something while you are out. Giving you this permission first makes him look like the good guy instead of a possible scum bag lurking under the diguise of Mr. Wonderful. I wish you well and think you can do better.
2006-07-12 11:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah how old are you both? The relationship is doomed especially he wants to break up with you for two days! Who does that? Once he breaks up with you that is it. Time to move on.
2006-07-12 12:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, it sounds like he's going to cheat on you while you're away. That way, he figures he can get away with it because you weren't technically together. Dump the little creep and find someone who will treat you right.
2006-07-12 11:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume he wants to ho around while I'm gone. And I'd dump his sleazy a**, cause 2 days isn't long enough to justify wanting to look around if he really cares for you.
2006-07-12 11:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋