how do I say no when I feel sorry for her -- nobody wants to work for her...
but neither can I -- she keeps begging me and I go back...
2006-07-12 11:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is very demanding and mean and yells ... and tries to cheat me when she pays me.. she stresses me out really bad..... and wont take no for an answer....
2006-07-12 16:35:11 · update #1
some people say I should find her a replacement but truly people NO and I repeat NO-body wants or can work for her.... Its hard to back out because I keep falling into that trap of pity.....
2006-07-12 16:37:21 · update #2
She is very demanding and mean and yells ... and tries to cheat me when she pays me.. she stresses me out really bad..... and wont take no for an answer....
2006-07-12 16:41:18 · update #3
tell her shes got 2 weeks to find somebody else, that your giveing her notice, you have to get on with better things, and better pay, and respect,shes handicaped, thats no reason to be ignorent or rude,she wants your services yet trys to slide one by you by not paying you properly, thats not right at all, shes useing her handicapness to make people to feel sorry for her, dont fall for it.
2006-07-13 03:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by freebuns76 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Oh, man. This is a tough one. But, are you referring to volunteering help to her or actually getting paid to work. If it's volunteering and she needs it, I would do it until you can find a replacement or talk to her and let her know she needs to start looking for a replacement. If you're getting paid, let her know that she must find someone soon, because you can't do it anymore(kind of like a 2 week notice).
2006-07-12 18:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you leaving her??
Remember, you are doing a HUGE service to her Creator (GOD)
But if you really want to, then I would suggest that you find her an excellent replacement before you quit. You owe atleast that much to her.
And if she is begging you to come back, then there is something that you are doing right and God will bless you for that.
2006-07-12 19:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put you foot in her shoes, and what would u do? Think about it, must be rewarding feeling to help someone in need.
2006-07-12 21:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone dependable, and tell her you found someone to take your place, Sick people are at times angry because they are sick and take it out on others,Just go you are not the one that made her ill, so dont feel guilty.
2006-07-12 18:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋