2006-07-12 11:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by bob b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a friend in the same situation,except her husband is the one having the affair.It started as an emotional affair (which Is worse then a physical one) and now they are getting a divorce. He denies any sex between the two,but it finally came out that they started sleeping with each other.As you can imagine,the family is torn apart.Not just the immediate family,but the whole family dynamics.So many people are hurt and affected.Holidays will never be same.Christmas,Thanksgiving etc....It is so much more complicated then if it was involving another person other then a family member. Before you take it any further,think about the aftermath. Family will choose sides,point fingers and be so hurt. You may very well be left to fend for yourselves.It's wrong in all aspects. It will never be acceptable and love does not conquer all. Best wishes.
2006-07-12 12:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by gucciandlouis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are married it is wrong to be in love with other girl.Marriage means a lifelong committment to somebody.You should start avoiding her and try to come close to ur wife.Thas what u shud do.
2006-07-12 12:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by dimpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay clear of that, only end up in tears, delve into your marriage and find out whats missing, go back to basics, starting dating again, get that feeling back.
2006-07-12 13:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. The more you "love" her the worse it is going to get. Do you really want to cross that line? Blood is thicker than water.
2006-07-12 11:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by cawecm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you should do anything. Unless she has given you some reason to think she wants to leave her husband (your brother) I think you should love her from a distance.
2006-07-12 11:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dee76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your hands off. Spend your time looking for someone who isn't in the family.
2006-07-12 11:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scratch out your eyeballs.
2006-07-12 12:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh??? how about no!!!! don't pay any attention to her, just get your wife close to you when you talk to her or you are near her. maybe that will help you.
2006-07-12 11:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by munchy_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if shes interested in you
2006-07-12 12:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋