Why do ALL women do this??

Question

ok why are yall so protective and jealous? my gf tried to kick this girls a$$ just because she sat on my lap. i mean it's not like we kissed right infront of her. all she did was sit on mylap even though we both knew i had a gf and all i did was talk she was flirting and hinting or suggesting we do some thing. my gf then tried to kick her a$$ and then mine.

Answer 1

You should be happy and flattered that women fight over you. LOL !!

Answer 2

if you have a girlfriend and you let another girl sit on your lap well.... that is kinda crossing the line especially if she was flirting with you that might be why your girlfriend got upset maybe next time if you tell the girl to get off your lap your girlfriend will feel that you are more serious about her most people girls and guy in a relationship would not think another person sitting on the lap of thier mate was appropriate I wish I could give you an answer you'd like better but that is probaly how most would view it??? Hope you work it out with your woman.As far as her kicking someones *** she may want to be careful the laws are changing and it's not worth it think about your relationship and if you like your girlfriend alot think about if she were to go sit on a guys lap how you might feel if it would be acceptable to you or not?

Answer 3

Sounds like you are an a$$hole. You should have moved this girl OFF your lap the second she sat. Hell, you should have moved her the second you realized her a$$ was coming towards your lap. I would have done the same thing. It's not jealousy or possessiveness. Because I am not a jealous or possessive kind of girl. It's called RESPECT. You have to have respect for your girlfriends feelings. Would you like it if your girl sat on another guy's lap right in front of you, flirting with him and such? Whether it meant anything or not? No. She should drop your dumb retarded a$$. I would.

Answer 4

All your girlfriends did was sat on his lap. i mean it's not like they kissed right infront of you. all she did was sit on his lap even though they both knew she was your gf and all she did was talk and flirt with the guy and he was hinting or suggesting that they do some thing.

DUH how do you like it that way??

Answer 5

OK, I'm not all for violence. I hate fights. But if I saw a girl sitting on my bf's lap, flirting with him and "hinting or suggesting" they were doing something, I would have some hard words for her AND for him. I know you weren't technically cheating, but your were engaging in what YOU describe as suggestive behavior with another girl. How would you feel if your gf was sitting on a guy's lap and touching him and flirting with him and suggesting sexual acts? I bet you wouldn't like it, so don't be hard on the girl, it's your irresponsible actions that got you into this situation.

Answer 6

Uh hello??....Did aliens come in and sweep away your brain? It doesn't matter that you didn't do anything. Your lap in your gf's view is HERS...not some other woman's. It takes us back to a predatory sense. We are protective of Our own. She tried to kick your a$$ for being the fool to not know that. She tried to kick the woman's *** for invasion of HER property, so to speak.
Now you have put questions into her mind, like.....'If he is so willing to allow a woman to sit on his lap, what else is he willing to do with another woman, when I am not even around?' 'Is he really serious about Me, or is he half hearted in the relationship?' ' Can I trust him like I thought I could?' Doing a simple thing, that in your mind meant nothing, can mean loads to your significant other, and have deep emotional scars. Even if she doesn't talk about them

Answer 7

Well it's hard to find someone you really like. Girls are so protective and jealous because they don't want to lose the one they love. That's just a sign that she really likes you. You should be happy. If you really like her then don't flirt or let a girl sit on your lap. She might take it as you liking another girl. Hopes this help! ^_^

Answer 8

How would you feel if your girlfriend sat on some guys lap? or if some guy intentionally sat close to her? I think if she is smart she would leave you. You seem insensitive and mean! That is wrong! You should be more sensitive to her feelings and put yourself in her shoes. She must care about you or else she would not get jealous, but obviously you dont care much for her if you let things that bother her continue to happen. Hey man if you dont like it then leave!

Answer 9

Well, that girl's behavior was a little over the top for her to know you are involved with someone. I mean, harmless, meaningless flirtation is one thing, but "suggesting we do something"? Your girlfriend might have thought this girl was trying to get you out of your relationship (I think she was and I am not even involved) and that's why she wanted to attack her. But if it were me, I would have disregarded the little tart and had a heart-to-heart with you about why you felt the need to entertain her behavior.

Word to the wise, the only time I had a boyfriend and didn't care if another girl was all in his face like that? I was cheating on him and looking for an easy way out of the relationship. (Not proud of this.) So be careful what you wish for.

Answer 10

What she should have done is left and found a real man. If you were a real man you wouldn't have disrespected her like that. You should have put your "friend" in check when she sat in your lap. Think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the foot!

Answer 11

not ALL women do this... don't know who YOU'VE been hanging out with. I could say I'd be jealous if a girl actually kissed my man on the lips or something further... but sitting on your lap? Get a new girlfriend who doesn't have security issues.