2006-07-12 10:59:27 · 15 answers · asked by Ice-girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is no real reason for he/she to die thinks happen for reasons we will never kno but talkin it over with other friends and family always helps. try talkin to their parents 2. i hope you'll b ok.
2006-07-12 11:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Chevy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,, can i just say sorry about your loss,.I lost my aunt (my second mother and bestest friend in the world) in march. she was in brilliant health until a couple of weeks, before christmas..she was getting bad headaches and had a few days in bed, after making an appointment the week after,, the optician told her ther was a large black shadow at the back of her head,, and she had to straight to the docs, who got her in hospital the next day, to be scanned.. to all our horror, (she had two teenagers and three grandchildren) we discovered she had a brain tumour.. it was too large to move and after a 4 hour operation to take a sample or biopsy,, they discovered all they could do was give her treatment to stop it swelling, she had a weeks course of radiotherapy,, which made her lose all her lovely long brown hair,,she got a wig but never wore it till she was laid to rest in her coffin,,, the tumour didnt kill her though,, (she said she wasnt going to let it beat her)... it was blood poisoning because of her low immunity,,that did cause her to die.i still cry nearly every day for her,, her heart was as large as a,lions..and she always put others before herself,, even through all this, suffering.. i ask god if there is one why??? but i think that he only takes the best first,, and he must have needed another angel,in heaven,,and think of the memories even though they make me cry,, theres a place in my heart she will stay forever,, and also im glad shes at rest and no more suffering,, god bless her! time does heal but it does take time,, marie.
2006-07-12 11:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by madmarie666@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of things happen for no good reason at all, they make no apologies for happening. Good people die while evil people live, this is the nature of existance.
It is in our nature to look for reasons for things, but the world is indifferent to our need for life to make sense, things just happen and we have to deal with them as best we can.
2006-07-13 01:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend died too a few years back when we were walking home from school they got hit by a car. I honestly have no idea why the people you love the most go away when u need them the most, all i know is that the world is F***** up.
2006-07-12 11:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Che'Relle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that happened, but everyone have to die one day, i have my 5 best friends in the world, i love them really much, but i know they will die one day, but even when they do, i know they were my best friends, and they will be always with me, like when we used to hang out together,esept that maybe we wont see them and we wont be able to talk with them, but at least he/she is in a better place, not in thise world full of mean people and serious killers, i know he/she didnt want to live you alone, but he/she never will, im sure that your best friend would want you to go on forward and have a good life, like before he/she died, he will always be in ur heart routting for you, helping you and giving you a hand even if you dont even know it, i know life hurts, but as much as it hurts you have to live it, you cant do anything about it,
im sure that your friend would like you to laugh again,
2006-07-12 11:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by jose r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because bad things happen to good people. If you're spiritual, you should know that she is in a better place. If you are not spiritual, then know she is at eternal rest.
Either way, its good to honor her and mourn her passing, but eventually you need to move on or you'll mess up your life and those who love you.
TX Guy
2006-07-12 11:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be insensitive but that's what makes the world go round. It doesn't matter When, where and how, all that matter is that you carefully go through the grieving process and then use this to make you stronger. That's how life is.Trusting in what God does.
2006-07-12 11:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Steven M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend time was up but dont worry he/she will be taken care of. They are in a better place
2006-07-12 11:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god has all the answers,i dont understand either my daughter died and life isnt the same,i just hope you'll be ok. keep busy and hang out with as many people as you can,so you dont get depressed. god bless you sweetie
2006-07-12 11:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by crickiscool7347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things happen 4 a reason. they must have been a real special person 4 god 2 choose them. whatever happens remember the good times u had and do not dwell on the bad times(if there were n e) good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-12 11:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋