I had problems with my bf--he cheated me, Now he is back and we are ok. Just ok because we have a new problem--our sex life is not as good as before. I know he plays himself sometimes in the bathroom, and so do I. Now I am addicted to playing myself. I play twice or three times in a day sometimes . Am I wrong? Any solutions? Thanks
2006-07-12 10:53:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nothing wrong with that.
2006-07-12 10:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that unless you have serious moral objections to masturbation - then if you do it is something you would have to deal with alone.
Masturbation is normal and healthy, it is safe sex, it is self-pleasure, it is stress relief, it can play a very important part in your sex life, it can help ease menstrual cramps and it can even be used to assist in inducing menstruation or miscarriage if need be.
Masturbating a few times a day is not an addiction, you enjoy it and there is nothing wrong with that, however if there are issues with your sex life with your partner perhaps you attention should not be on whether or not masturbation is wrong but what the problems are with your partner – if sex is not as good as it is then you need to work out why, work on those issues, and if you are both self-pleasuring then try incorporating that into both your sex lives with mutual masturbation.
2006-07-12 18:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kasha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its normal for girls to play with themselves, or with anything that vibrates.
You two need to sort it out with yourselves and be comfortable with each other...
the probelm is not you two play with yourselves...
Its that you are not on video phones telling the other how to play with yoursleves or putting on a show for each other then cuddling after.
Plsying with yourself is more normal when single but those in couples do it too... The amount you tow are doing indicates you need to be with someoen so need to get used to touching each other again and loving and playing with each other and groping and kissing all the time..
Maybe acting like you did when you first started dating and actually dating again may help.
Ie one move out and you date then end up at each others house or make out in a car , on a train etc.
2006-07-12 18:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation is perfectly normal no matter how many times you do it. Perhaps you should play with each other? Then you are playing as a couple and sorting your sex life out at the same time.
2006-07-12 17:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by LifeChange 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong to "play yourself" but maybe the two of you should see a counselor or try and talk about the problem you have in the budoir...see if there's something that he can do, or that you can could do, or the both of you could try something to bring back what you had.
2006-07-12 17:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Kitae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you're not wrong! that is, presuming you're not causing any friction damage, that is.....! Masterbation is perfectly nornal, it's natural and thoroughly enjoyable (-: You might want to talk to your boyfriend though....you BOTH enjoy masterbation, so why not do it in the same room? Not for one another, but solo, maybe watching, or one at a time.....? Might be just the kick-start yous need.
2006-07-12 19:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by hedgehog_loafer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Solutions? To what? Playing with yourself is not a problem - it's natural.
2006-07-12 18:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aint wrong hun,
just get yourself some toys and have fun, you doing no harm to anybody.
enjoy yourself, prob find you have better sex with your toys than him,
2006-07-12 18:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Matt H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the bf - hes no use if its more fun goin solo!
2006-07-12 17:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Allasse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you explained this in more detail ;oP
TALK TO HIM!!
2006-07-12 17:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by KENNY G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋