2006-07-12 10:40:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Basically, you can't.
However, you can discuss the matter with him and let him know how you feel. Then he can decide from there.
2006-07-12 10:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends a whole lot on what that "something" is. For example, being a Republican is a whole lot different than getting loaded. Of course, the odds that you can change a partner are slightly less than the odds of finding a partner that doesn't need changing. That is, of course, if your psychology permits...
2006-07-12 17:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate your wishes to him about this matter. Tell him how it hurts your feelings when he persists in this behavior. If he expresses concern for your feelings but is committed to keeping the problem behavior, then you will have to decide whether you can tolerate the behavior. If you can't or if he doesn't care about your feelings at all, then you would be wise to consider ending this relationship and finding yourself a more compatible partner.
2006-07-12 17:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and see if your partner is doing something that will affect you really bad...If it does and he wont stop then just give him the choice..its either me or that thing you wont stop doing..But dont make him stop if it isnt harming you in anyway
2006-07-12 17:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and either accept it or move on. You can't change a person especially if that person doesn't want to change. If you can't accept the behavior then that's not a relationship.
2006-07-12 17:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by jozlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have explained your views and he still chooses not to stop you may have to give him an ultimatum. It may not be something you want to do but you claim it's something you DON'T like.
Why continue to settle?
2006-07-12 17:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by prtybrwnskn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop doing something because you don't want him to, he'll only stop if HE wants to. So if you find whatever he's doing is too obnoxious, you'd better move on.
2006-07-12 17:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him that your going to take something away from him that he really likes... For example, if he likes to hav sex alot then tell him if he doesnt stop then you will be taking that away from him for a while.
2006-07-12 17:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stopes because you want him to it will just be for a short period of time.If its somthing he wants to do he will not change unless he wants to stop it.But if you try to make him he will just do it more or just stop to please you and then you will end up saying all of this all over gain
2006-07-12 17:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women meet men, think he's the one, i love him, he's so great, he's perfect. Then they go about trying to change him. You've placed your bet love, you have two choices, stick with it or crumple up your docket and walk away from the track.
2006-07-12 17:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Fly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋