What to do!!!!!!!!?

Question

My parents broke up when I was five and I am 11 now my mom got remarried and my dad has a new girlfriend and alot of bad things are goimg on to me right now should I tell somebody about them

Answer 1

Yeah, I'm liking the whole idea of talking to someone you trust. Without knowing what your actual problems are, at your age a teacher might be a good idea as if there's something they deem "critical" they can intercede on your behalf and make your life somewhat better.

I, too, am a child of divorced parents, so I know it can be hard.

I'm pullin' for yeah.

Answer 2

I don't know what things are happening to you, but PLEASE tell someone about them. If possible, that person needs to be another adult. If you have access to a school counselor, that would be a good start. A leader at church that you could confide in.

I came from the background like you describe. Bad things happened to me and I never told anyone until years later. It would have been so much better for me to tell someone. If nothing else, call the police (not 911) and tell someone you need to talk about something that is happening to you. They will listen. You can also look in the phone book, the part in front with the colors on the edge of the page and find the listing for DFHS. Tell them what is happening. I hope things are alright. I worry for you and will pray for you. Sunshine

Answer 3

Yes, I would definetly go and talk to someone about your problems. If you don't feel comfortable talking to mom or dad then go to a trusted adult friend or family member. If you need some non-judgemental advice you can always email me anytime at [e-mail] and I will help you the best that I can. I hope your problems get better soon.

Answer 4

I don't know what bad things are happening to you hon, but you should absolutely talk to someone. A best friend is good, but a grown up you trust is also important.
I have a nephew who's parents (my brother and his wife) have been divorced and re-married, and it was really hard on him. His school counselor, and his other Aunt have helped him a lot.

Answer 5

my parents haven't divorced, but by the way they act sometimes i think they should be--so i can't relate to that part. however, knowing enough to think a situation is bad is a very good step in fixing the problem. you NEED to tell someone NOW. don't talk to be people on the internet--they're weird and perverted. i know it's embarrassing and shameful now, but, when you tell, after you tell, about whatever is going on, you're going to help. and you'll feel better, okay?
talk to somone...NOW.

Answer 6

If something bad is happening to you,you need to tell someone you know and trust,like another relative besides your parents.Don't talk about it to people on this site.You need someone you KNOW and can trust.Be careful on sites like this and don't pay attention when someone is rude to you.Talk to teacher,or a grandparent.They can help you sort things out.Good luck!

Answer 7

Yes please do. If you cant talk to your parents, then your school counceler, preacher-minister or even law officials. And sometimes just talking to a good friend will help you figure things out. But by all means get help.

Answer 8

Yes go to someone you trust no matter the situation.

Answer 9

Yes TELL SOMEONE QUICKLY, IF THEY HAVE THREATEN YOU SO WHAT TELL ANYWAY. KEEP ME POSTED, I GOT YOUR BACK BETTER YET CALL 911. DO IT RIGHT NOW

Answer 10

TELL YOUR MOM .OR A CLOSE RELATIVE.