My mother-in-law is a manipulator, controller, liar and two faced witch.
She has tried everything to have her son leave me and we have been together for 5 years and she still hates me.
I am polite to her out of my love for my husband, but inside I am looking forward to the day she dies so she can stop trying to ruin my life everyday.
I will feel bad for my husband, his family and our children when she dies, but she is really a cold heartless witch.
She has said I am a slut, my family is horrible, I never loved her son, I was using him for his money when he is actually poor, that I had no business thinking I was good enough for her son, etc.
She staged an intervention before our wedding to "talk sense" into her son so he wouldn't marry me.
2006-07-12 10:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by WannaBeMom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep being the good person you are, and you won't give her any more annumintion and you can't feel guilty for anything you said.
Good luck to you.
She may lighten up after you give her a grandkid, because she'll ealize if she continues being mean, she won't get to see your adorable baby.
2006-07-16 20:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa N 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your energy wishing for her death. The most important thing is for you to live knowing that your husband loves you, adores you and knows exactly what his mother is all about. If that is the case then you should be able to deal with her existence. Let her be the witch, you remain the better person, love your family and maybe before she dies she will realize that you are the best thing that could have happened to her son. Live a life according to Gods' word and maybe you won't meet up in the after life for eternity since it sounds like she'll be going to a very warm place.
"Treasure life"
2006-07-12 10:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Champ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, never look forward to someones death, karma is real, you could go before she does.
Why not be happy that her efforts failed and take pride in that. After all, he is your husband. Smile at her and give her kindness.
Or do what she should and sit down and tell her woman to woman how you feel. Let her tell you how she feels. clear the air and agree to disagree and get along for family sake.
Simple respect or no conversation. Start expressing an interest in moving out of state. You want harmony, love, stability for your family, and you know, better opportunities ect...
Anything except unwanted family interference.
2006-07-12 10:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by dlbrown2211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does GOD enable it to proceed?? Um, sweetie...why are YOU allowing it to proceed? i am going to placed it in layman's words for you: You DO have rights, your mom has lied to you the entire existence, you're not from now on worthless and also you're not from now on a no one. Your mom is a mendacity, manipulative female and he or she has issues that only an truly good therapist can help her with. it may well be a procedures better so that you could proceed to exist campus, do not you imagine? You stated you're a criminal justice pupil - in case your college has housing, proceed to exist campus instead of at "living house". Or get an condominium with some roommates. MAKE it ensue. provide up listening to the lies your mom tells you about your self. you're doing precisely what that cruel, sadistic female needs you to do - to sit down down at living house, be lower than her thumb and beaten down by technique of her. provide her the finger and flow the hell out of there. you should do it!
2016-12-01 04:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that Mother's don't like being replaced by another woman who can now care for their Son's. Tho she's clearly disrespecting you, I can see why you'd get really upset. I think you're handling it very well so far and maybe someday you'll get the balls to simply say "Lady, I'm here in this family and this marriage whether you like it or not so either get used to it, or shut your mouth."
2006-07-12 10:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-12 10:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by DRLUV62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there baby girl i stayed in it for 6 years i couldnt take no more but the old goat died and i did the victo ry dance i just wish the bitc had died before my husband and i got divorce she stayed in our business she cause problems she told lies he would get mad but then he would be like thats my mama he had that right the bat was his mammie not mines
2006-07-12 10:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol sounds like my life all over again
and no it isn't evil for you to think that but your man need's to be a man and stand up to his mom the sooner the better it took mine 10 years we have been married for 12 and if he don't what comes around goes around and she will get hers in the end
2006-07-12 10:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if she is as bad as you say, look forward to the day that your marriage will be less stressful, but not to her dying, even if she is a bee otch, the bad karma will boomerang back to you
2006-07-12 10:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has tried that hard, and you still got your man, good for you girl. Don't worry about her. It sounds like he is an only child and she is only trying to protect him. You will know what it's like when you have your own kids.
2006-07-12 10:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋