He used to love me but know he loves her i am stuck I want to get him back again how ?
2006-07-12 10:15:47 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why bother? He took the high road, I think you are better off without him! Just move on, oh yeah about your best friend...I do believe they just lost that title!!
2006-07-12 10:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by ronrlogan 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well im taken it as if your best friend knew taht you loved him and she took him, Well i would have to say she wasnt such a good friend,maybe you need to look that friendship over.But hun she didnt steal him ,he went willingly.Try to be the big girl here and walk away from it.I know alot of people would say men and come and go but friendship last forever,but in this casewho needs friends like thatThis doesnt meen you should stop having her as a friend but dont tell her everything ,no secrets no more just be here friend.was wrong for her to do this but he also had somthing to do with it to and dear if he realy truly loved you he wouldnt have ever of done this.Hun your not the looser here they are.Let them have each other and go get yourself a much better friend and man. Good luck
2006-07-12 10:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls crack me up! Guys are not our properties. Your friend couldn't steal something that wasn't yours in the first place. You say he loved you in the beginning. I wasn't there so I don't know the details but why would you want to be with a guy that left you for your friend. It doesn't make sense and you can find somebody better.
I don't know why women degrade themselves fighting over a man. It doesn't make sense and the guys only laugh at you. It is an ego thing to the guys to have women fighting over them.
2006-07-12 10:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is just my opinion, but I would assume your b.f.f. would know who you had a crush on. If she still "stole" him than she isn't a very good friend. Most importantly though you can't really "steal" people. It's natural for people to move on in their lives. If you two had a relationship and he's chosen to go out with her now, that's his choice to make. Just remember the good times you shared and move on yourself. Don't worry, your feelings will heal once you get someone new in your scopes.
As for your friend; I wouldn't think it was very nice if one of my friends dated someone I had my eye on, or had broken up with. If they were a really good friend and I could see how happy they were together, I would get over it and be happy for them though. Remember that most of the time, the things we desire the most are rarely what is really good for us. It's annoying but true. ;-)
2006-07-12 10:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by CrimelessRaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from both of them and become a better person. You're caught up in too much drama. A good man would have never left your side for anyone else anyway, let alone your friend. I say move on, move forward and don't look back. Be a strong woman...not a desperate little girl.
2006-07-12 10:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont steal him back he just missed out on something good why fight for something good when you could get excellent!!!! huh? ity makes no sense to chase after him let him go i bet theres alot of better man than him and ur best friend if she was any kind of friend she wouldnt have did that . if she did that to to u then she isnt your friend at all i bet u had a best friend and didnt even know it and she/ he probaly has been there more than her
2006-07-12 10:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by not telling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happend with me and my best friend... everyone told me that i shoudnt want him back after he did that, but i still had a HUGE crush on him... i ended up just flirting with him untill finally i found someone else... who wouldnt be so easily distracted by my friends!
2006-07-12 10:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want someone that doesnt want you. there are so many guys with so much to offer. I use to feel the way you do when I was younger. learn from the mistakes of others and get on with your life, why would you want her sloppy seconds even if you had him first. just by asking this question it is clear that you are better than that and just need time to heal and move on. dont dwell on this.
2006-07-12 10:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant steal a person. he didnt want you that much. saw something better and she apparently is not your best friend so she went with it. only a ( insert really naughty C word here ) would do that. i'm sure you can find better... stop wasting your time and focus all your energy into looking fabulous so next time you run into them they see how much better off you are without BOTH of them.
2006-07-12 10:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take him back she wont have him for long! i would get new friends and a new man! other wise you would always have that doubt that it will happen again! i had the same thing happen to me and now i am glad that i walked away! it didnt last long between them! and now i have a wounderfall FIANCE! not boyfriend! who loves me uncondictionally! he's not worth wasting your tears over sweetheart! go get a hug of your mum and dad....:) you need one!
2006-07-12 10:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want him back or are u just upset because some one else has him. If you both really loved onanother why arn't you still together. anyways if there was real love ther talk to him and tell him how you feel, if you really love one another you too will get back together.
2006-07-12 10:25:03 · answer #11 · answered by .? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋