there's a girl in my class who has serious issues and her parents refuse to send her to a proffessional! she always wants to hang out with me and my friends and we don't want her around cuz she's totally sick and she cuzed us trouble many times... she lies, steals and make stupid fantasy stories about her and other guys in school which put them and some of other friends in embaressing situations many times. every1 h8s her and she realizes that but she's like a sticker! and the problem she wants to hang out with me!!! i'm afraid of pushing her away may cause me touble by her or even hurt me, and we tried to keep away and avoid her but we can't, my whole class contains only 14 students and they're all devided into understanding crews while she's always out ( and outcast) no1 likes her near and i wanna keep her away, any ideas?
2006-07-12 10:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by sk001_h8r 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
school teachers are so useless, they caught her stealing a couple of years ago and she addmitted that she most stole from me ( money and many gadgets and it's true), the thing is i really don't wanna hurt her but this girl only brings hurt, the thing that bothers me most is that she pretendes to have nothing and she makes up well-arranged lies. She's clever and she uses her brain to make up stories to cover her back. she stole from teachers and she's made many troubles to guys and girls! i've made up my mind that i don't wanna be her friend but the question is how to get rid of her for good?
2006-07-12 10:33:20 · update #1
oh and thnx alot to all answers, they're really nice
2006-07-12 10:33:50 · update #2
she has some serious problems that root deeper than you can imagine. You should speak to your school counsellor and express just what you have expressed here and leave it in their hands.
2006-07-12 10:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This same situation happened to my daughter a few years ago. Try talking to her 'one on one' away from everyone else. Don't get emotional. Try to get her to be quiet for a minute and tell her THE TRUTH. Tell her you want to help her make friends, but that her lies and fantastic stories are only making her and outcast. Usually even small communities have counselors or clergy that she could talk to. Before you sit her down, explain the problem to some adults you trust. See if they have any solutions, and by all means, print out whatever answers you get here and give them to her. Tell others (friends and fam) what you are going to do so that if she fabricates a lie about you7, everyone else will be forewarned.
2006-07-12 17:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by crushedlilacs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you try to befriend her and find out why she acts the way she does. Or you can just buck up and tell her you don't want to be her friend. Tell her to leave you alone. This will probably devastate her. Do what you feel is the right thing. But also remember this. No matter how hard you try to help someone they wont change unless they truly want to with all their hearts.
2006-07-12 17:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being young is hard. if her parents are refusing to get her help than speak to the counselor are your school or teacher. sounds like she needs help. but she also needs a friend. so call her on the carpet about the lies. tell her you will not tolerate it cause she is doing it for attention. tell her you will be her friend only if she gets help and tries to start straightening up. good luck to u!
2006-07-12 17:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Luvbuz01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for her. and maybe, if you can get the courage up, try to talk to her. and maybe you can help her while at the same time God does. but make sure you pray for her no matter what. that is one of the best things you can do for her.
2006-07-12 17:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by searcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a chance she might turn out to be your best friend she need a little care but seemingly no 1 is willing to give it to her including you
2006-07-12 17:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by ireland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a teacher or counselor
2006-07-12 17:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋