why do girls keep blowing me off? or is it just that i am not as attractive as i think i am.?

Question

I get blown off every time, but i dont get it because i go to the gym 5 days a week and am healthy at around 11% body fat. I dont understand why after all this work things are not any better.
also give me ideas on what plastic surgery might help out.
i.e... rhinoplasty

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NLSSALE&key=PGA

give me pointers on how i can work on my personality...

Answer 1

Try working as hard on your personality and character as you do on your looks, guaranteed once you are a pleasant, caring, sensitive and compassionate person with a great sense of humour and ifallable integrity, the girls will be all over you!

Answer 2

You had a very high rating on hot or not. Mine was only in the 6's and I had no trouble meeting women. Certainly not the beauties, but nevertheless quite attractive. Better than nothing anyway. In your picture you look insecure, maybe that's it. Try asking some real hogs out just for practice. That's what athletes do, they try to achieve success at a easy level and they gradually build up. Maybe you belong in the minors and aren't ready yet for the big leagues. But with your looks, you certainly have the potential. What kind of job do you have? If it's a low pay one, there's your answer. Start working on your career, your mind (educate yourself, take college classes, great place to meet women under no pressure), and your personality.

Answer 3

The problem is probably the way you approach them.

Of course, the best way to approach a woman changes depending on the woman that you want to approach. What sorts of locations do you approach women at? What types of conversation do you try to bring up? What time of day is it usually?

It may just be that women blow you off because they aren't interested in that sort of thing in the environments and at the times in which you choose to bring it up. It may be that they don't like the way you look because you try too hard to look good - there's no need to use all sorts of hair products and jewelry and fashionable clothing to be attractive.

This is cliche, i know, but your best bet is just to be yourself. You're not going to get women on the way you look alone. You've got to have personality (and you undoubtedly do). It's just a matter of showing it.

You may even have better luck if you just stop trying so much. If you take it slower, you may have better luck - i've found women are much more receptive once they've gotten to know you, see you as a human and not just some man who wants in their pants.

Answer 4

I think you're cute! Personality is a HUGE thing to girls. Don't be cocky, major turn off. Be sweet, but still act like yourself. Find out what the girl likes in guys, if it similar to you, pursue her!

Plastic surgery?? Come on... You're kind of vain. Don't worry so much about it.

Answer 5

Get rhinoplasty surgery in India.Cosmetic Surgery is very cheap in India.There is one company that is very famous in India that arranges cosmetic surgery for foreigners in India.They are called the Forerunners Healthcare.I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories.

I have also read that they arrange financing for american and canadian patients as cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance.They also have photos pasted of their International patients.You can checkout their website.The cost savings are incredible.

As a doctor i personally believe that your cosmetic surgery can be easily handled in India as the quality of healthcare available here is simply best in the world.The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.If you still havent got your surgery done,you are better off getting it done in India.

my cousin got her breast reduction/liposculpture/buttoc... lift surgery in India through the forerunners healthcare.she is more than very happy with the results.she just paid 30% of the amount she was quoted in USA and is all praise fore this forerunners healthcare company.i personally have seen the wondeful results and am particularly impressed with the kind of quality care she got from this company.I am sure they will help you also with the best.be

Source(s):
http://www.forerunnershealthcare.com

Answer 6

Girls don't like a guy who's full of himself...if this question had been saying 'i know I'm fat...but I'm sensitive and caring etc.' then girls would be sympathetic and you wouldn't get blown off cos we do care about personality...a good body is just a bonus!

Answer 7

surgery is not the answer .......I saw ur pic, and as stupid as it may sound, there's nothing wrong with ur looks.... Maybe you should try your approach, for instance girls might think you take ur looks to the extreme.....in other words implying arrogant, proud, shallow......if you were just urself maybe you'd get more response......be more confident.......my sister is the same way. She thinks that she's sooo ugly and she's soo fat. Its not that she's ugly or fat, its how she presents herself and carries herself that ppl really look at....I know several girls that would love to go out with someone like you...

Answer 8

Dude, best advice I got. If you are looking to get laid, treat women like any other dude or furniture or something. You chase it you lose. Looking for love? Quit looking it will find you. Do what you want to do, be who you want to be, and don't sweat the chix, because they are not sweating you. This is from an average looking, 5'6" dude who has nailed girls into three digits and I wasn't even trying!

Answer 9

It must be your personality. You look fine and in great shape. Just try to figure out what you are saying or doing that they don't like. You don't need plastic surgery. Trust me.

Answer 10

She's purely no longer that into you. And if she is the courting will by no potential artwork. because she would not even understand the thanks to commence one a lot less keep it at the same time. ignore it and bypass onto somebody else or no individual else. Being without one is extra perfect than being jerked round.