i went to a club w/my husband and 12 other ppl. my husband started dancing w/1 of the other girls that came w/us. i mean nasty, *** grabbing, sex w/ur clothes on, dancing. so i hooked up w/her bf. since then my husband has been REALLY nice to me. hes always sweet, but i mean bending over backwards nice. i thought maybe he was feeling guilty because hes never done this before. hes never even touched another woman as far as i know. but then i got to thinking he might ba fantasizing about this girl. weve been married 20 years. great sex life. never any cheating on his part. wat do u think is going on?
2006-07-12 09:59:01 · 10 answers · asked by scooter trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm, very curious. He probably does feel a little guilty but possibly that little bit of time dirty dancing with this other woman has brought back a spark in him. It may have made him feel younger, and now he's feeling really good about himself....and you. If this is the case,,,take advantage, it will mean your marriage will keep going and it will have a new spark in it. Lucky girl.
2006-07-12 10:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by kiss me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is always nice to know that you are still desired by other people, take it as you will. Did you have fun doing it yourself? Maybe the hubby got a little jealous seeing you do it, and realized he better just save the dancing for you..
2006-07-12 10:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem could be that your husband wants to increase his friends circle. you have been with him for 20 years and you even say that you have a good sex life. after 20 years i dont even think you should doubt him like that. i think its just a phase and will get over sooner than later. nothing to worry about.
2006-07-12 10:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by pLå¥ëR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey just go with the flow, if he is or wants to cheat on you, you will know. definately... things like that always shows its self..... but if he is actin all nice and everything... he could be afraid you will cheat on him... because he probably felt your vibe, about the whole dancing with other chic thing..... so just wait and step back , and see what happens... you don't want to lose your man over assumptions do you?
2006-07-12 10:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by TeTe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this before or after the other woman started putting her hands up your clothes and feeling you?
2006-07-12 12:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by Doctor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he was just cutting loose and having a little fun. Then later he probably felt guilty about it. Why don't you have a threesome or something.
2006-07-12 10:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked the swing and he is trying to know if you like it too, so that he can do it again.
2006-07-12 10:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Eduardo C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just having fun. Nothing more.
2006-07-12 10:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just run with it. if he cheating it willl come out in the end.
2006-07-12 10:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it turned him on to be with the other girl and see you with the other guy...it's called swinging.
2006-07-12 10:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋