2006-07-12 09:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by ngwife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have been happily married for 4 years been together for 6. we have always gotten along perfectly (as far as perfect goes), we've always been best friends, everything. we have always said that we have what everyone else wishes for. in the last 3 weeks he has changed, he just got home 2 months ago from a year long tour in iraq. when he first got home everything was normal, the same as always. something in the last 3 weeks has changed in him. i dont know, he says he doesnt feel the same about me as he used to. he says he loves me but is not in love with me. i dont know if it has something to do with being in iraq or what. all i know is i am hurting very badly, and i dont know what to do.
2006-07-12 12:36:25 · update #1
Chances are he is still in love with you. You have probably hit a rut (like most long term relationships do) and you've stopped being demonstrative and less concerned with each others well being than when you were in the throes (correct spelling) of romance. Look at your daily life: do you spend time on your appearance? do you talk about things other than domestic issues? Have you had a vacation or even a dinner date recently? Get some candles, wear something he likes, get some bath salts and massage oil and some strawberries! the corny stuff works. Take time to remember why you married in the first place. Do something wicked and nasty. He'll dig it.
2006-07-12 10:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by badslaw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop the nagging
Lose some weight
Buy mini skirts and high heels
Invest in some lingerie
Get implants, botox, etc
Go to a second honey moon
I'm being as honest as possible!
Good luck
2006-07-12 17:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to taunt him. make him fall for you for having sex. thats the only way. when you two are alone make it a point to do something wild so hes interested in you. just start showing him some of the stuff you have and he will indulge in sex.stripping should do the work. you should hhave good breasts for that
2006-07-12 17:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by pLå¥ëR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That usually doesn't happen. Many men have told me that if you fall out of love then it wasn't love to begin with. Perhaps if you let him have an affair he will realize he isn't missing anything. But I wouldn't go there.
2006-07-12 16:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back as to what you were doing when he first fell in love with you. Has something changed?
2006-07-12 16:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by pgbrady614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous, all relationships hit a rut stage, bring back some fun in your relationship.
2006-07-12 20:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be yourself and if that doesn't bring your husband back then you never had him in the first place.
2006-07-12 17:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by crenshaws_apache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on dates again and get to know eachother again.
2006-07-12 17:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE IT SEEM LIKE WHEN YALL WERE GOING OUT SOMETIMES THAT IS REALLY ROMATNIC
2006-07-12 16:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋