She is obviously my X friend now but I pretend to still be her friend in hopes she'll give me my stuff back. She always makes excuses that they are at this house or in the washer or whatever! I just wnat my ****! What do I do?
2006-07-12 09:50:26 · 25 answers · asked by Dream Bree 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The next time you see her, accept no excuses. If they're in the washer, that's fine, go get them. You'd rather have wet clothes than no clothes. If they're at this house, that's fine, go to this house and get them. Be pleasant, but be insistent. They are your clothes, stand up for yourself and go GET them.
2006-07-12 09:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jinx U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-10 08:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that it really isn't worth you worrying about it. You would be better off to just dump her as a friend and write the clothes off as an expensive lesson. One option is to try and enlist some other friends who have access to her stuff and have them see if they can get a hold of the clothes. Another option is to borrow some thing of hers of equal value and hold it hostage till you get your stuff back.
2006-07-12 09:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop making these excuses and get your clothes back no matter what she says. Go to her house and get them back...if it's in the washer, tell her that you'll be back in an hour when it's done.
2006-07-12 10:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happend to me a couple times throughout my life. I've told my "friends" to either give them back next time they see me or I don't want nothing to do with them. It worked with the people who cared, but the few who kept my sh*t were left in the dust. Just consider how people may be when you give them too much. Too many of them will take advantage of how thoughtful you are. Good luck getting your stuff back (unstretched)!!! I hate that!!! LOL!
2006-07-13 18:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by missy146833 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no ideal, 2 way to go. 1 is take it back by force...
the another way is talk with her that u also need it(but useless)
i think u also want this world peacefull rite? if u want peacefull the their are only 1 way.. that is continues to be a friend next time dont borrow the her again or become an enemy dont talk to her and dont help her anymore...(this way your cloth wont get back anymore)
2006-07-12 22:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by johnsteven6888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either A) kill her, or B) let her borrow another $200 worth of clothes, but this time sprinkle cyanide inside them (odorless, tasteless, you can get it colorless too) C) all else fails, run around naked, from the looks of it, I don't think anyone will mind,
2006-07-13 01:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Claim it on your income tax as a deduction for donations to Charity , and check your dictionary for the defenition of " friend "... Notice that the last 3 letters of friend is END .
2006-07-12 23:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and tell them she stols some expensive clothes and uve asked nicely for them and she wont give them back to u.
2006-07-12 09:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her room and take back your stuff. or better yet, wait until she isnt home, go over and tell her mom you left something in her room and youve come back to collect it...then take your stuff back.
or you could talk to her mom about it and ask for them back through her mom.
if you have any of the reciepts from those clothes you can call the police over to her house and show the reciepts (proof of purchase) to them and they will allow you to get your stuff back.
2006-07-12 09:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋