Can u get married at 14?

Question

I am in love and we can wait but we really want to get married right now!!!

Answer 1

Nowhere without your parents approval, and not at all in most other states.

Just wait. If it's meant to be, it will last.

Answer 2

You cant get married without your parents signature and approval. I know how you feel, when you are in love you think that thr only thing you want is to be with the other person, and get married quick. Dont anyone pressure you , you are toooo young for this. First of all ask your self a couple of things:
1. Do I really love him to get married someday?
2. Is he the man right for you?
3. Can he be a good husband and father?
4. Can we buy a house and support ourselves at this time?

If you both think that you really would like to marry some day. Talk about it, and make plans for the future. Its very important that you both have a job, so you can save and buy your own house or apartment, buy your stuff, maybe have a car. Marriage is a very important and you should enter in it when your prepared and capable of assuming all the responsabilities that comes with it, after it will come childrens and more responsabilities to it. So you should enjoy your time together, study , have a good time, be with your friends and wait. After a while you can decide if you are right for each other and continue the relationship. My husband and I meet at high school 10th grade (1989) we were together for 6 years, at some times we got desperate and thought like you, getting married young , but the truth is that it wasnt right at that time so after we graduated high school, we both got jobs and went to the university and planned our future together. We got married in 1995 we were 22. We are still together and very happy and we dont regret our desision about been together. We have 2 kids. I love him more and more every day and I like him more than before im 33 now. So please think about it, let me know your desicion. If you need any answer email me . Take care!!

Answer 3

Oh heavens, honey! Why? Yes, you love him but there is so much to see and do before getting married. Love is blind and young love is blind, deaf and dumb to all the potential problems there could be with the person they are in love with. Getting married so young would cheat you out of so many of life's experiences and possibly from meeting someone who would be a better partner for you. You should finish school, travel, experience a bit of life before getting married. Otherwise when you are 30 years old with 4 kids you will envy your friends who are out having fun. You will regret the things you did not get to experience. Think about this carefully. Neither of you have matured to your full potential or fully developed your character yet. You don't know what kind of husband he will be and he's not likely to make a good father at such a young age. What if you get pregant right away? Are you pregnant now? If so, you need to speak with a counselor immediately so they can help you sort out your options.
Are you certain this is not just a way for you to get out of a bad situation at home? If so, please think of another way to resolve the problem. Talk to another adult who is not connected to your family, a teacher, a minister, a counselor.
In answer to your question, there are some states/places where you can marry at a younger age, 16 I think, but only with parental consent.

Answer 4

If you are only 14 you desperately need to slow down and wait. If you are 22, finished with college and starting your career and still want to get married, then go for it. 8 years should be long enough for you two to decide if you are right for each other. For the love of God, please don't get married at your states earliest age. I think 15 or 16 is the earliest any state in the country has per law.

You both have a lot of growing up to do and until you both mature you don't really know what you want out of life.

Answer 5

THIS IS NOT THE STONE AGE, neither one of you cant even drive no job in this day and age those are only 2 of many things that are needed, and a good education, learning knowledge is very important don't bring you and him down to one day at a time we will make it, NO you wont because right now all you have is LOVE and that isn't enough at your ages, finish school and let what you have grow don't jump into something you don't understand some adults don't know what marriage is find out for self don't listen to everybody don't go by seeing or hearing, your feelings are changing but the answer to your Q is NO in no state maybe in a country that is not free

Answer 6

I totally understand how you must feel. I was 14 once. My boyfriend at the time was awesome, or so I thought. We said the same thing, we wanted to get married. But you have so much life to live first. Actually I'm not even sure if you're old enough to work. You'll have many loves and losses in your life but you need those to be who you will become when you ARE ready for marriage. Your perfect man is waiting for you somewhere and he'll be much better for you at 25 or so than your boyfriend is for you now at 14. Just be patient. Enjoy your youth, listen to music really loud, chit chat with your girlfriends, decide what you want to do for a career, and when you're old enough, party, date, flirt, HAVE FUN.

Answer 7

No. At least usually not. There are some remote parts that allow this practice, but it's not typically condoned or necessarily a good idea. I think you should talk to your parents about how you could pursue this love. Don't be surprised if they advise you to wait - they're thinking of what's best for you. I don't even know you and I'm a little worried. Is the other person 14, too?

Answer 8

Don't you think 14 is a bit too young to get married? You are just a child yourself. You didn't tell us how old your boyfriend is or how long you have been with him? If this is true love, don't you think it will be there for you when you are a bit older to make a mature decision?

Think of it this way...all you friends will be enjoying what 14 year olds do. What will you have in common with them?

Answer 9

Wait a min...You are way way way to young to be thinking about getting married.And no you can not get married at 14.Maybe at 15 if your mom and his mom signs for you.But you are to young to even get a job.How would you make money to live?Besides that you are still in school.What grade are you in anyway?Did you just finsh the 7th grade?Anyways you should not be thinking about getting married until you are like 30.You need to finsh school go to college.Make something of yourself.Buy a nice house,nice car.Then look for someone to marry.At 14 you don't know what you want.Trust me you don't know who you really are and what you really want out of life unti you are in your mid to late 20s.

Answer 10

omg do u know how many times i was "IN" love at your age.. lol.. u dont want to get married trust me.. u still have along life ahead of you .. boys are going to come and go .. and to answer you question no u cant get married with out parental consent till your 18 so if you and your bf are soooooooooooo in love.. waiting 4 years isnt going to change that.. so just be patient .. if he really loves you he'll wait till your atleast 18..

Answer 11

please wait. u way to young to get married. enjoy life you only 14. i know it your first love believe u will have a lot of boyfriends before u meet the right one and if he the right one then wait until u get out of school. good luck