It just that girls turn me on so much more than men do....I love the way they look, sound, and act. I used to go out with my now best friend and when we were girlfriends she took such good care of me and vice versa. should i go completely lez?
2006-07-12 09:41:21 · 17 answers · asked by Gothic Princess 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go with what makes you happiest.
2006-07-12 09:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mithrandir_black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really bisexual then it would not be a choice to make. Bisexuals, like lesbian, gay, and straight people, are born that way and don't have a choice or "turn" into anything else. Just because a bi girl marries a guy doesn't make her straight, and ditto if she is with another woman she doesn't turn into a lesbian, still bisexual.
If you would like to find a girlfriend next because you became jaded with men fine, but don't do the switching sides myth about bisexuals. It just feeds into a bad sterotype.
2006-07-12 23:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go all the way heterosexual?
It is 'fashionable' with some young people to engage in homosexual acts. I can remember when it was 'fashionable' to engage in heterosexual acts.
Sex outside marriage (commitment) brings unhappiness. It can also bring both mental and physical health risks. Doing what is sexually 'fashionable' can bring you nothing but grief.
You deserve a happy, health life. Seek that for yourself. You will look back someday and be grateful if you do.
Santa Fe
2006-07-12 16:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by santafe_dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's really not a matter of going completely gay or straight. If yu are bi- you are bi...It's just a matter of choosing who you want to be with and remaining faithful...whichever sex that may be. If you think that your friend is the girl for you go for it. Be with her and only her. If things don;t work out and you meet a guy that makes you feel that way as well, go for it. You have the option of being with anyone who yu fancy, just choose to be monogamous to THAt person.
2006-07-13 22:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by scorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way until i met my boyfriend. I still find girls more attractive then guys, but theres just something about him that I can never let go of. He is my everything, and you should find someone like that too. It doesn't matter if its a male or female.
2006-07-13 01:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by karolinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you can choose?
I'm bi--I preffer women, but it's the soul that matters most to me. I've got me a great guy! I still love girls and find them far more attractive, but my boy is beautiful and he is my world.
If I could choose I'd be straight. It would have made my life a hell of a lot easier. But it's not my choice. I'm not Christian, either, and that made things a lot easier. Still . . .
2006-07-12 20:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Songbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the way you want to go, then yes. I'd keep the options open, though. I personally would not object to a relationship with either sex, and if you feel that way, then go for it. :)
2006-07-12 17:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Santclair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its whatever u want I'm bi and I'm with a girl and i wud give up guys for her cuz shes the only person i wanna be with...i dont need men to satisfy me when I'm completely happy with her
2006-07-12 18:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u deside to go lez i would love to be your girl
2006-07-13 16:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it a while(like 8 yrs) ago and I have never been happier!
2006-07-12 18:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋