Which is it?

Question

My husband was getting ready for work and I was sick he told me to go back to bed i needed my sleep etc..., he needed to get on the computer to do somethings before leaving for work but he just stood there was watiing for me to go back to bed first. He said he did not want to seem rude by walking away first. He ending up yelling at me ,slammed his fists on the table, cursed at me. He said he did this becasue I kept REPEATING myself telling him that he made no sense waiting for me to go to bed first, and I did not beleive his answer that he did not want to be rude and simply walk away from me, and he felt he was being pushed by me. So which is it? Did he get angry becacuse he felt pushed and I was not beleiving him, was it because he was trying to hide something?

Answer 1

oh no hun he is hiding something from u and if u dont know how to check the history then i can help u out but if he clears it then i cant u go to history button n it shows u what all he has done, if u want to clear what u have done then go to tool internet options delete cookies delete files clear history and hit ok. now if he is stupid enough to leave the page open the home page after he is done then just hit the back button to see if. but ill tell u now he is prolly cheatin or into porn. if its porn it isnt that serious all men do it. if hes cheatin put his a.s.s out now bc once they cheat they always cheat. if he wasnt doin anything wrong n hidin stuff then he wouldnt have cared if u was there,...keep me informed if u want to ill help u out u can get to me directly at [e-mail]

Answer 2

Hide something,without a doubt.I am now happily married but before ,I have been there and done that.Computers can be a great thing but a bad one too,in the hands of someone who wants to do bad things.But I have a suggestion for you.Let it go.Yes,just act like all is okay and that you really must have been ill and your so sorry and you should have just went to bed.After he goes to work,get your butt down to a computer specialist or even a office supply store and buy a CD that will monitor his activity,without him knowing.Two can play this game and then you'll have proof.Then,as he is still gone,install it and get help from a trusted friend if you don't know how,but I mean a TRUSTED friend.Then,after it's installed,give him ALOT of time alone.Sleep extra,even go to the store or get out the house more.Do whatever you need to do to give him the opportunity to do what he has been doing.Then,after a few days,and he is off at work,check it.Then,confront him .You will have the proof you need so he can't yell at you or work his way outta this one.Then,you give him a choice and if it comes to the fact that he is cheating on you,give him an ultimatum.IF he cannot be an adult and use the computer for clean purposes,then,he doesn't deserve a computer.Cheating is cheating via inter-net or not.Good luck!!And NO matter what he tries to tell you,excuses,lies,and all, you are NOT at fault!!!!!

Answer 3

If he got angry, he's hiding something. If he was simply trying to be polite, he would have left once you questioned why he was waiting. If he actually cared, he might have even put you in bed and tucked you in. No, he was up to something. Check the history on the computer to see what sites he might have visited. His anger was way out of proportion with the situation. I would keep a close eye on his activites. Check his receipts, his cell phone calls, etc. Something isn't right. He may be having an online romance or maybe an in person affair. Or, he could be delving into the world of porn. If any of these behaviours are objectionable to you, then you should check on what he's been up to.

Answer 4

I went through the same thing. Most likley your husband is trying to hide something from you. That just means you have to be just a little more clever than he is. When he's not around find out where he has been going on the computer. Have you heard of cookies? Use it

Answer 5

He was definitely trying to hide something. And the whole scandal thing is just to divert your attention from whatever he was trying to hide and make you feel guilty about questioning his irrational behavior. You should really push the subject and try to fins out what he is hiding and if he is cheating on you leave him as soon as possible.

Answer 6

Could really be either. It seems like he's being really defensive over a very small issue so he may be trying to hide something. But it could be that he just wanted you in bed so you could feel better. Who really knows.

Answer 7

He's hiding something. If he's at work now, go on the computer & look up history. He sounds too dumb to know how to really hide things.

Answer 8

Sounds to me like he wanted to do something and your not going to bed was hampering that. He's hiding something. Him getting that mad proves it. Do some investigation, especially with the computer.

Answer 9

It sounds like he had something to hide.I would start being sneaky if i was you.Look on the computer history to see where he has been.I would even look into getting something that would track whatever he does on the computer. Well thats what i would do anyway.

Answer 10

Could be either. Only he knows the truth. He could be having a bad day, or is just an ***, or is hiding something which would cause such a defensive reaction.