what would you do if your wife cheated on you and the guys wife calls you to tell you?

Question

I knew something was going on but then suddenly the guy she is having the affair with 's wife calls me. I of course am filing for divorce

Answer 1

I would do exactly what you are doing. Let your attorney do the talkin' now.

Answer 2

You never said how long you've been married and whether this is the first time, this has happened...Is this marriage worth saving? Divorce is probably inevitable but could you possibly give her another chance at salvaging it, expecially if their are children involved..If you do stay together try not to assume that everytime she's late she's in another affair...Trust her as though an affair never happened cause if she wants to cheat, she'll find a way and you can't stop her...Just let her know that you'll never tolerate another affair so that if she persues that route she'll know the marriage is over, for sure...Sorry this had to happen to you....

Answer 3

I'm one of those people who would most definitely file for divorce.

The caller may have many possible motives for calling you but one of them could be to do the right thing. In this case, it had to be a very hard call to make. I would most definitely acknowledge this and thank the caller for doing me the favor.

Since your wife appears to be deceptive, I'd make sure that I had as much written documentation as possible. I was up against a person who lied extensively and had public relations and acting experience. I didn't want a "he said, she said" situation, so fortunately I was able to illustrate the perjury through written documentation such as real estate records.

Answer 4

I would team up with her to get photos of them and gather whatever evidence you could to build a case against them. When you have the evidence, file for divorce. If someone cheats once, they'll do it again and they cannot be trusted. Your wife has betrayed you. It's difficult to accept but you must protect yourself.

Answer 5

Well,since you have the divorce rolling,that's about it.Cheating on her isn't going to change anything and the fact that she committed adultery is going to be bad on her in the courts.Just tell the truth,get what you deserve,and let her go.there's so many good women out there looking for a faithful man.Good luck!

Answer 6

I would flip my lid!! Then proceed with the divorce...once someone cheats on you, they can never be trusted again. After the first time, if you forgave her and took her back, it would just be too easy for her to do it again and again. You're doing the right thing....divorce her! If people can't be true to the one they're with, they don't deserve that person.

Answer 7

I'd set up a dinner date with ny wife and i'd tell the lady who told me to bring treat her hubby out at the same restaurant, when the come in I'd have the lady to come over to our table with her hubby then, i'd get up and leave and suggest that the lady leave too since both of our spouses want to be together.

I think thye'd be very embarrassed, i'd also have someone to videotape it for me.

Answer 8

Lil Jimmy Norden would suggest you take your wife on a nice fishing trip like Lil Jimmy's friend, Scott from Modesto, did with his wife.

Answer 9

File for divorce on the grounds of adultery.

Answer 10

I do not believe that, "ONCE a Cheater always a cheater", people do make mistakes and or purposely make mistakes also.. Maybe it was her way out also... Sometimes it is easier not always right, but easier to make a way out then facing the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts.. Sorry to hear about your situation... Good Luck

Answer 11

Sleep with the other guy's wife.