2006-07-12 09:12:16 · 14 answers · asked by lovel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He obviously doesn't feel the same as you do. Just forget him and find someone who deserves you.
2006-07-12 09:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to mourn the loss either on your own or with the help of a therapist and perhaps some medications.
You will want to explore whether you are capable of loving someone who is available and not involved with someone else. Doing this will help you find someone you can love that can love you back.
2006-07-12 16:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote call and meet him for lunch in a very public place and explain to him your feelings. I would hope that he will then explain to you his true feelings for his soon to be wife and lack for you and this perhaps will help YOU move on from him. Otherwise you may ALWAYS ask yourself "What if" for years. There is nothing to gain from not being proactive in your own mental health and if you need to hear it directly from him to see that he is happy now and this new woman is what he needs then DO IT! But in a very responsible and adultlike way. I hope it helps you move on.
2006-07-12 16:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by dreamsykel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is heartbreaking, but it's really important for you to move on now. It's a waste of your love, attention, and affection to spend it on someone who is not going to give it back.
Do whatever it takes to help you move on: burn pictures, talk to him for closure, go on some dates with other guys, list all the reasons he's annoying, and make sure your very busy and entertained on his wedding day.
2006-07-12 16:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to get married to someone that is not you. Step aside since you are not the chosen one.
You have no bussiness interfering, let it go and move on
2006-07-12 16:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zoe is 100% right. Get over him there are lots of FROGs still out there to kiss.
FROGs = Fat Rich Old Guys
2006-07-12 16:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by i wear one button suit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a bird and fly fly away! If he loved you you would be marrying him. Go out and have yourself and affair.
2006-07-12 16:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by fl2stay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he loved you, he wouldn't be getting married.
2006-07-12 16:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by mcollinsvcollins2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away, he's getting married for a reason
2006-07-12 16:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by honeybaby729 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him sooner. I think you should leave him alone and let him have a happy marriage.
2006-07-12 16:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋